Jump to content

pegleg31

Members
  • Posts

    2,003
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Everything posted by pegleg31

  1. If I'm honest im feeling a little guilty because im always at him because I want him to come out of himself and if he has a disorder I can help him. Me and my partner have fell out tonight over it as she thinks I'm attacking her. She also thinks there's something wrong but doesn't want him labelled as she thinks it'll draw unwated attention towards him.
  2. If there is something wrong with him I'll embrave it and encourage all the more, if he's just being a loner then all I can do is limit his time on the computer and encourage him to do more. It's hard though as he's not my son there's only so much I can say and without the backing of my partner my hands are tied.
  3. We've got 5, he had a German shepherd for his tenth birthday as my partner thought that would bring him out of his shell I'll look into thanks
  4. I wish I had the time!. If I get the time I'll play Fifa with him but xboxs really aren't my thing and I can't see what people see in them. His dad plays them constantly and would rather sit at home playing online then go out and find someone!.
  5. No, we've asked the schools both primary and secondary but they've told us to go to the doctors, the doctors fobbed us off. The specialist he's under just thinks he's immature. My parents used to foster a lad with autism and aspergers. Means always been into himself, he's come on a lot since I've been involved but he seems to be reverting back to his old ways now he's hitting his teens.
  6. I've only known him since he was 9, his dad hashed him on a Xbox since he was 3!. I know my partner isn't blameless on it but her defence the marriage broke up with them having the house repossessed and she's gone on and built a thriving business where she employs 5 people and feels guilty that she hasn't been there as much as she could. The kids get and have everything from her. When he was in nursery apparently he Lindsey was told he should get some special order? (Probably not called that but meant he should get 1 on 1 contact) he's also been to a speech councillor when he was younger as that's the first point of getting assessed but it had to get called off because he got to upset.
  7. If he had friends and sat on his computer it wouldn't bother me as much, it's the fact he's a loner and won't interact with anyone that concerns me plus other things that make me think there's something else wrong.
  8. I'm really worried about my partners 13yr old boy. He distances his self from everyone doesn't like to interact with anyone, has no friends at school and spends all his time in his room on his computers. I know you're thinking sounds like most teenage boys, but when you're around him 24hrs a day things add up. We've tried to get people to look at him, the school says there's nothing wrong but are worried he's not making friends and lacks concentration?. The specialist he's under for his illness thinks he's just immature, his father is useless and just leaves him in front of a computer for the 24 hrs he has him and isn't prepared to do anything with him. It's really starting to get to me as I feel I'm always getting on at him and truth be known im probably a lot to do with it as I'm always trying to get him to do things and get him out of his room and I think he's starting to resent me for it. I'm at a point where I don't know wether to give up and leave him to it as my partner and I fall out over it when I bring it up, but I just can't help thinking his life at the minute is lonely. At parties he'll sit in a corner on his own, he has one friend who is my partners friends son who he gets to see every now and again who'll he'll actually interact with. He even finds it hard to interact with his brother which is my son and often gets annoyed with him when he tries to get his attention. He can't tie his shoe laces and loads of other stuff he has difficulties with, he's not stupid by any means but seems disinterested in everything apart from computers, he can't show any affection even towards his mother or sister. Is there anyway I can force someone to look at him?, my own son is I'll and looks like his steroid trial has failed which means he'll be blood transfusion dependant but instead of worrying about that I'm more concerned about Kian. Russ
  9. Well last night was a waste of steak!
  10. Single Built under oven is ok to run off a plug socket a double oven needs to be of atleast 6mm cable.
  11. I always cook steak! In fact if I want to enjoy what I'm eating I usually cook it!
  12. I'll be doing my bit and cooking steak the rest is on her!
  13. I get that statement and Id guess a lot of people work to the same rule.
  14. Wouldn't want to work with some one who only has his own interests at heart. I wouldn't imagine you've gone far in your trade? Maybe if you were more of a team player you'd get the holidays you wanted?. I'm not saying you should have to sacrifice every hour of the day for your company but if you're as good as you think you are then maybe your company needs you to sort out others incompetence?. I may be wrong in my thinking though but I get the feeling you're a one man band whod find fault within any company and thrive on being awkward?
  15. I take it you're a team player?
  16. I'm not exactly pro hunt myself but I think if I was the one riding the horse I wouldn't of stopped. The woman put herself in a dangerous situation and only has herself to blame. If that rider had stopped who knows what actions the rest of the sabs might have taken.
  17. If all fails I can get you one made if you can get a courier to deliver it?
  18. Give them a ring I think they've recently resized everything so might still have old stock. It's only a phone call and might work out
  19. I'm sure magnet used to do odd sized units. 900mm are a standard set size. 570mm, 720mm and 900mm are all standard unit heights.
  20. Tell him to go on #### and a good old sock will help him out.
  21. edited to say it's a poly carb roof, thought it was another type that you insert aluminium bars into. If you lay crawlers across the structure of the roof you'll be ok to work off it.
  22. I like your dog! Nice, fast and it's got style. Have you been hunting it on rabbits? Keeps its head nice and tight to the ground. Russ
  23. A **** **** is better than a good w***, well that's always been my motto!
×
×
  • Create New...