lol - everything you are saying is pretty much a play by play of my application i.e. declared a condition, was told it should be ok by the FEO as long as the docs report matches my declaration (which it does) and now waiting around wondering. Currently been about two and a half weeks since they should have received the doctors report. I have asked the FEO to confirm receipt of the report and should hopefully get confirmation tomorrow.
So, rest assured you are not alone in your musings.