Paddy Galore! Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 don't tell him, just tell everyone on the internet instead i'm sure it'll get back to him that way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vipa Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 I'd keep in touch with her afterwards, she might like a sympathy shog What's a 'shog' ? Is it legal? :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikky Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 (edited) what if you tell him and then meantime she changes her mind if she does leave him..pass on my details to her...if my missus finds out with a bit of luck she might leave me mikky Edited June 3, 2013 by mikky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaun4860 Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 What's a 'shog' ? Is it legal? :-) it is in North Bucks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilR Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 What's a 'shog' ? Is it legal? :-) I may have got my vowels mixed up. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otherwayup Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 The daughter comes first... the missus has it planned that way for a reason and I have to say it's a damned good one... Keep out of it.. I would rather live with a ****** off mate than the knowledge that me opening my mouth ****** up the lasses life as she couldn't get through her exams!!! Absolutely. Exams taking place right now and continue for the next few weeks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kdubya Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 (edited) makes no odds what you do you are goosed , if you don't tell him your a **** if you do tell him your a **** similar thing happened to a lad I work with,his daughter reached 18 and the lads wife says that's it brought her up now I'm off to do a bit of living cheerio, fact that not fiction, plus side is he is now involved again and getting better nookie apparently. KW Edited June 3, 2013 by kdubya Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
njc110381 Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 I'd leave it well alone. It's second hand information and that sort of stuff isn't reliable at the best of times. If she does leave him and he finds out you knew, just tell him you didn't believe it and as it was exam time for his daughter you didn't want to stir. It's not like he can do anything positive if he does find out, so why rock the boat? Only you know your mate well enough to judge, but unless I was really close to someone I'd sit back on this one I think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WelshAndy Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 I take it he's not a member on here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trevorevans Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 (edited) You say you had the info from your Ex, how much do you trust her? After all she's an Ex for a reason, could she just be trying to stir things up?. I'd say nothing untill/if it happens, then deny any prior knowledge and support him all you can. Messengers have a tendency of getting shot. Edited June 3, 2013 by Trevorevans Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coyotemaster Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 If you weigh Risk and Gain you should see that leaving it alone is best, if questioned later be honest and say it wasn't your business. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
overandunder2012 Posted June 3, 2013 Report Share Posted June 3, 2013 Do nothing and don't get involved - that's the kind of caper that no one thanks you for for getting involved in. /quote] Wise words nobody can prove u know anything Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bi9johnny Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Smash her back doors in After all you did say it was over between them. Best not let it go to waste she may end up on the other bus. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highseas Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 look the only way the pw massive can help is with a photo.......face book one will do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delburt0 Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Leave well alone, she has obviously made her mind up if his wife doesn't no you no leave it at that, and just be there to pick yer mate up.and pretend you never knew Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonathanL Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Definitely keep well out of it. None of anyone elses business. Moreoever, this is at least third-hand info by the time it got to you so you really don't know what the facts are. Saying something might actually make things worse. J. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pole Star Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Think of the the 3 Chinese monkeys "" Hear no evil ! "" See no evil ! "" Speak no evil ! "" I hope the story has a happy ending ! . ATB . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackinbox99 Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 EDIT Has the soon to be ex Mrs got massive jugs? Just asking like. hahahahaa!!!!! that made me laugh! As for the original posters problem, id just keep quiet and not say a word as I wouldnt want to get involved. Hows your mate going to find out you knew? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
four-wheel-drive Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 keep out of it.....simple advice I second that its non of your business what ether of them do your x was probably told not to tell anyone she should not have told you in the first place as I see it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billy. Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Smash her back doors in After all you did say it was over between them. Best not let it go to waste she may end up on the other bus. Do this. Good solid advice from someone who knows what they're talking about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pole Star Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Smash her back doors in After all you did say it was over between them. Best not let it go to waste she may end up on the other bus. Just the sort of thing that could cost him his Shotgun&Firearm cert ! heaven forbid ! . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stavvy Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Smash her back doors in After all you did say it was over between them. Best not let it go to waste she may end up on the other bus. Just the sort of thing that could cost him his Shotgun&Firearm cert ! heaven forbid ! . In this case I don't think the intention was to go around her house and damage her doors, that's burnleydave territory Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bi9johnny Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Just the sort of thing that could cost him his Shotgun&Firearm cert ! heaven forbid ! . Hehehe I don't believe you didn't know what I meant hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bagsy Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 This is an easy one. Leave well alone - unless she's a stunner worth running off with, in which case get in there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pole Star Posted June 4, 2013 Report Share Posted June 4, 2013 Hehehe I don't believe you didn't know what I meant hahaha ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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