Archie-fox Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 So my divorce lands in the doorstep and the house sells Friday.. Today's the day I have to move out.. Bags packed removal men busy loading up.. Do you ever get that feeling that everything happens for a reason..let's hope this year things work out for the best!!! 2 weeks back at my mum and dads till I compleate on the two houses I bought, 1 to rent out and 1 to live in... Onwards and upwards!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Geordie Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Best of luck matey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mentalmac Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Good luck in your new ventures - sometimes things happen for reasons unknown to you at the time and can hurt you at the time but later you'll look back and wonder why as you are much happier elsewhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fruity Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Been there myself, best of luck with your new Start Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
photon Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Good luck! I hope everything works out for all concerned. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archie-fox Posted January 28, 2015 Author Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Good luck in your new ventures - sometimes things happen for reasons unknown to you at the time and can hurt you at the time but later you'll look back and wonder why as you are much happier elsewhere. Yea been split up 6 months now so it's time to start again... New house no old memories... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mentalmac Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Yea been split up 6 months now so it's time to start again... New house no old memories... I'm sure new house will have many happy memories :-). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginger_Swingers Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Not something I've ever been through but I imagine it's bloody tough and I hope all goes well for you in the new place and going forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STOTTO Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Fate is a funny old master, sometimes cruel and at other times kind and only the passage of time will reveal your true destiny! Good luck and fair weather to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shooterluke Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Good luck atb luke Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FarmerSim Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Best of luck with everything. Sim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simonm Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Currently going through this myself, glad you are out the other side Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SNS Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I did pretty much the same thing back in 2000 (though we weren't married). Thought it was the biggest disaster in the world. Ever. Didn't see how anything could possibly ever be good thereafter. And you know what ? I couldn't have been more wrong. My life improved beyond all recognition (save for having to spend 4 months back with my parents !) and I can look back now and on any analysis thank my lucky stars that I am where I am now than where I was then. It will be rubbish at times in the short term no doubt, but you sound already like you have the right kind of mental attitude to ensure the future will be brighter. Learn from the past rather than regret it, and move on - and keep posting updates as you create the new happy memories of the future ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuji Shooter Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Once the gun cabinets in it will feel like home Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SILVERPIGEON Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 All the best to you Rich. Hope all turns for the better for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steve_b_wales Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 My ex wife had an affair and walked out on me, and tried to get the kids, the home and the business. I fought her in the courts, and, although it cost me a fortune, kept everything, and had joint custody of the children. She married the guy she had an affair with and is now having a hell of a time with him. I remarried 15 years after getting divorced, and have now got a very wonderful, loving and kind companion. It was hard going through the divorce courts etc, but, she did me a favour, although I did'nt see it at the time. Life goes on, and you have to make the best of what you have. Good luck for the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiny tim Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 good luck for the future Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flynny Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 one door closes and another one opens, Atb Flynny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JDog Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I did pretty much the same thing back in 2000 (though we weren't married). Thought it was the biggest disaster in the world. Ever. Didn't see how anything could possibly ever be good thereafter. And you know what ? I couldn't have been more wrong. My life improved beyond all recognition (save for having to spend 4 months back with my parents !) and I can look back now and on any analysis thank my lucky stars that I am where I am now than where I was then. It will be rubbish at times in the short term no doubt, but you sound already like you have the right kind of mental attitude to ensure the future will be brighter. Learn from the past rather than regret it, and move on - and keep posting updates as you create the new happy memories of the future ! An excellent post. The short term may be difficult. The future will be for you to engineer. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fabhui Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Been there. You'll be fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul taylor Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Good luck Mr! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loriusgarrulus Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Good Luck for the Future. OH and I have both been there with previous partners. Very Happy Now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mossyoak77 Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 (edited) Good luck, Hope you settle into the new house Edited January 28, 2015 by Mossyoak77 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Full Pelt Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 First divorce is always the hardest, good luck Archie, have a smooth move, take you a week or two to get straight but time passes without any help from anyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
victorismyhero Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 a few words of advice mate.... You have one life.......LIVE IT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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