12gauge82 Posted October 8, 2021 Report Share Posted October 8, 2021 4 minutes ago, clangerman said: of coarse not and vouchers would certainly help stamp out scammers my problem is painting dirt bags after a house with 80 grand in the bank (my little clanger busted her) from those who are in real trouble Thanks, my post just looked awful after I posted it and read yours above it, was worried you'd think it was aimed at your daughter. Your right and it's what makes me angry, people taking help away from those genuinely in need. Imagine what could be done to help genuine people, if we could somehow eliminate those that don't need it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted October 8, 2021 Report Share Posted October 8, 2021 11 minutes ago, oowee said: Absoloutely. But... what do you do about it. Taking benefits will result in higher state costs through prison populations and dealing with social fall out. You have to provide an alternative carrot and stick but also a pathway out of poverty. Otherwise you get what we have now chaos, political splits, left and right swinging policy direction, rich and poor and a slow wind down to the back of the que. I would start with compulsory community work, orange overalls 6hrs a day litter picking or such like, rather than being able to sit at home doing as they like. That at least would would make the next generation think differently, hopefully make them realise it would be better to work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clangerman Posted October 8, 2021 Report Share Posted October 8, 2021 1 minute ago, 12gauge82 said: Thanks, my post just looked awful after I posted it and read yours above it, was worried you'd think it was aimed at your daughter. Your right and it's what makes me angry, people taking help away from those genuinely in need. Imagine what could be done to help genuine people, if we could somehow eliminate those that don't need it. must admit list after houses dropped real sharp since she took control one of those check check and check again types but other side is how grateful the genuine are many women write letters of thanks just for being safe again not a way for anyone to live Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oowee Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 15 hours ago, Mice! said: I would start with compulsory community work, orange overalls 6hrs a day litter picking or such like, rather than being able to sit at home doing as they like. That at least would would make the next generation think differently, hopefully make them realise it would be better to work. And unfortunately its that attitude if trying poenalise those less fortunate than the average that results in the rest continuing to pay. Rather than work through the problem its far to easy to exacerbate the situation by blaming the victims. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 1 hour ago, oowee said: And unfortunately its that attitude if trying poenalise those less fortunate than the average that results in the rest continuing to pay. Rather than work through the problem its far to easy to exacerbate the situation by blaming the victims. Many aren't victims though, they are happily sitting at home living off handouts, they know how to play the system and their kids then do the same. Being forced to do something for the community would stop those who are claiming and working because they couldn't do both, so would probably be better off working. It would also hopefully put some community pride back into areas. Do you think that people should be able to claim and take handouts but give nothing back? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B725 Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 Some people make a career out of claiming and that's the problem, we have some round here that are just out and out bone idle but it dosnt matter as someone else will fund their lifestyle. The genuine people should definitely get help but there has to be a purge on the scroungers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnfromUK Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 Just now, B725 said: Some people make a career out of claiming and that's the problem, we have some round here that are just out and out bone idle but it dosnt matter as someone else will fund their lifestyle. The genuine people should definitely get help but there has to be a purge on the scroungers. /\ Exactly this. If the scroungers were weeded out - the system could be more generous with those in genuine need like the sick and disabled. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oowee Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 36 minutes ago, Mice! said: Many aren't victims though, they are happily sitting at home living off handouts, they know how to play the system and their kids then do the same. Being forced to do something for the community would stop those who are claiming and working because they couldn't do both, so would probably be better off working. It would also hopefully put some community pride back into areas. Do you think that people should be able to claim and take handouts but give nothing back? I dont doubt it but you have to win hearts minds and wallets. You can try forcing but it wont get you anywhere other than increasing crimes and filling prisons. You have to show them a more attractive route out of poverty. Encourage them to want to change. I am sure that there are some only too happy in their world of benefits but I am sure there are many more that want out but can't see how to get there. Its a bit like the overweight, the unfit or those that drink too much. They might want to change that lifestyle and some will do that. Equally there are far more that cannot see a way out and can't break free from the procrastination that afflicts them. Indeed they may not even know there is an issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wymondley Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 1 hour ago, oowee said: I dont doubt it but you have to win hearts minds and wallets. You can try forcing but it wont get you anywhere other than increasing crimes and filling prisons. You have to show them a more attractive route out of poverty. Encourage them to want to change. I am sure that there are some only too happy in their world of benefits but I am sure there are many more that want out but can't see how to get there. Its a bit like the overweight, the unfit or those that drink too much. They might want to change that lifestyle and some will do that. Equally there are far more that cannot see a way out and can't break free from the procrastination that afflicts them. Indeed they may not even know there is an issue. I actually agree with most of that, I just don't think you can incentivise these people, they've all been at it too long. Generations of families that have never worked, lazy uneducated parents that breed lazy uneducated children, who then become the same again as parents. We need to break the cycle, difficult with the adults but you could start with the kids! Proper basic education, core skills along with pride and respect, doable? I think so, it would be a start, but first we need to make changes to both teachers and teaching. And that's a whole different discussion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 22 minutes ago, Wymondley said: just don't think you can incentivise these people, they've all been at it too long. 22 minutes ago, Wymondley said: We need to break the cycle, difficult with the adults but you could start with the kids! Proper basic education, core skills along with pride and respect, doable? I think so, it would be a start, but first we need to make changes to both teachers and teaching. The problem is the two things don't go together, if you aren't being pushed and encouraged at home then the teachers can only do so much. 24 minutes ago, Wymondley said: Generations of families that have never worked, lazy uneducated parents that breed lazy uneducated children, who then become the same again as parents. It seems totally alien to me, we understood that my dad wanted to work but simply couldn't, his body just couldn't do it. 3 hours ago, oowee said: am sure that there are some only too happy in their world of benefits but I am sure there are many more that want out but can't see how to get there. There will be some who would be no better off working, like a single parent with a couple of kids, the costs of child care would make it pointless, but there will be lots who have simply never worked and never intend to, they won't be encouraged to work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vince Green Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 23 hours ago, clangerman said: show me a man who has not done a job on the side or some sort of fiddle at least once and I will show you a liar there’s a word for those who live in glass houses hypocrite I've never done a job on the side so you can call me a liar. What I have done is always paid an accountant to sort out my tax affairs . I've made much more money being honest than I ever would have made ducking and diving Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clangerman Posted October 9, 2021 Report Share Posted October 9, 2021 11 minutes ago, Vince Green said: I've never done a job on the side so you can call me a liar. What I have done is always paid an accountant to sort out my tax affairs . I've made much more money being honest than I ever would have made ducking and diving had more than one accountant myself think a good one should qualify as a fiddle lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old man Posted October 12, 2021 Report Share Posted October 12, 2021 On 09/10/2021 at 19:32, Wymondley said: I actually agree with most of that, I just don't think you can incentivise these people, they've all been at it too long. Generations of families that have never worked, lazy uneducated parents that breed lazy uneducated children, who then become the same again as parents. We need to break the cycle, difficult with the adults but you could start with the kids! Proper basic education, core skills along with pride and respect, doable? I think so, it would be a start, but first we need to make changes to both teachers and teaching. And that's a whole different discussion. Someone mentioned the other day that their rate of family increase was more than the normal too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amateur Posted October 12, 2021 Report Share Posted October 12, 2021 1 hour ago, old man said: Someone mentioned the other day that their rate of family increase was more than the normal too? Of course, when all you are doing is alternating between home and pub, you have to have some recreation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ehb102 Posted October 12, 2021 Report Share Posted October 12, 2021 On 09/10/2021 at 19:32, Wymondley said: I actually agree with most of that, I just don't think you can incentivise these people, they've all been at it too long. Generations of families that have never worked, lazy uneducated parents that breed lazy uneducated children, who then become the same again as parents. We need to break the cycle, difficult with the adults but you could start with the kids! Proper basic education, core skills along with pride and respect, doable? I think so, it would be a start, but first we need to make changes to both teachers and teaching. And that's a whole different discussion. You need to make sure the children aren't turning up to school hungry. My good friend works at a school where 65% of the children are marked as "vulnerable" or "at risk". They had to set up donations of food because children who aren't fed can't concentrate. So breakfast at school became the norm. Now you can claim that some parents out there are buying cigs and drink instead of feeding their children, but the numbers are just too high now to be anything other than systemic poverty. You have to get people's basic needs - food, clothes, shelter, safety- before they can change. = Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saltings Posted October 13, 2021 Report Share Posted October 13, 2021 On 08/10/2021 at 21:38, Krico woodcock said: Southern Ireland is a lot different today I'm afraid saltings..dole here is up on highest rates than anywhere. Do absolutely nothing for top benefits. Generations of families, know how to work system and bleed it dry. Laugh at lads getting up to go to work. now this saddens me its not the country i left i was brought up to work my kids work mrs and i supported our kids bellies were full warm clothes and footwear taught them kill it cook it eat it and forage dislexic as hell i helped my kids to simplifie problems and work it out the boys and girls hunt and stalk and dress a carcase they love fresh anything maybe to move forward we have to go back to basics stop blaming government get an alotment or back garden grow your own and hunt and avoid tescos eat healthy i cant stand **** pork Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old man Posted October 13, 2021 Report Share Posted October 13, 2021 Sadly, again, it's no good caring too much because obviously the ones who can create change to make things better don't give a rodents derriere about such lowly matters? I don't see any politico giving a flying fig about any rising cost as they just claim it back on expenses, giving us again the opportunity to pay it for them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wymondley Posted October 13, 2021 Report Share Posted October 13, 2021 On 12/10/2021 at 15:14, ehb102 said: You need to make sure the children aren't turning up to school hungry. My good friend works at a school where 65% of the children are marked as "vulnerable" or "at risk". They had to set up donations of food because children who aren't fed can't concentrate. So breakfast at school became the norm. Now you can claim that some parents out there are buying cigs and drink instead of feeding their children, but the numbers are just too high now to be anything other than systemic poverty. You have to get people's basic needs - food, clothes, shelter, safety- before they can change. = 65%? I do wonder why, with such systemic poverty these people had children in the first place? Just saying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted October 13, 2021 Report Share Posted October 13, 2021 52 minutes ago, Wymondley said: 65%? I do wonder why, with such systemic poverty these people had children in the first place? Just saying. I understand people want kids, we would be in a sorry state if people weren't having kids, it's when people don't work but have 3,4,5 kids that's when the problems start. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ehb102 Posted October 14, 2021 Report Share Posted October 14, 2021 15 hours ago, Wymondley said: 65%? I do wonder why, with such systemic poverty these people had children in the first place? Just saying. Wow. Just saying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rewulf Posted October 14, 2021 Report Share Posted October 14, 2021 15 hours ago, Wymondley said: 65%? I do wonder why, with such systemic poverty these people had children in the first place? More kids = More benefits = More money for fags , booze , drugs = Kids go wanting, grow up with no self respect/education = Cycle repeats.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ehb102 Posted October 14, 2021 Report Share Posted October 14, 2021 It's just like Jonathan Swift was writing today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wymondley Posted October 14, 2021 Report Share Posted October 14, 2021 (edited) 23 hours ago, ehb102 said: It's just like Jonathan Swift was writing today. Ironic that such a remark would go over the heads of most of these poor kids. Perhaps if they had the education we were fortunate enough to receive there'd be less (perceived) poverty. When I left school I knew nothing of how many genders there were, I could however read, write, budget for my lifestyle and realise I shouldn't have children I couldn't support. Edited October 15, 2021 by Wymondley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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