Very profound Eug. Reading your post made me think and your right it is selfish i shall now try harder to find an outlet for me sport. I suggested the idea of my cooking dinner and after a course of expletives the general run of the reply was a no! Though with BBQ season know here it's my turn to don the apron, she may be a wizz in the kithen but she terrible on the BBQ front so i dare say i could sneak a wee bird on the grill.