allthegearandnoidea Posted June 17, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 17, 2009 This is usually where I Make myself look like a complete b*stard by saying something inappropriatte. So I'm' aure your mother in law was lovely. Mine is the devil! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted June 17, 2009 Report Share Posted June 17, 2009 She was mate.. And as i said,' establish a zone in which you can both exist or it will be rough for you.' How old are you bud? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted June 17, 2009 Report Share Posted June 17, 2009 You are 28 and mentioned children? Been married once before? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 17, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 17, 2009 no, first time. am looking forward to it, for her, inlaws are hard work! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 17, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 17, 2009 (edited) don't think I mentioned children, neice, but that is all. Don't I think I have mentioned kids beofre but she has othe plans! Edited June 17, 2009 by allthegearandnoidea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted June 17, 2009 Report Share Posted June 17, 2009 Is she a mommas girl and runs to her with every problem y'all have ever had Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 spot on! got her to move house to get away but it wasn't far enough! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 especially witht the wedding coming up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted June 18, 2009 Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 I can say this cuz it happened to me first hand? Only my wife ran to MY mother and complained about me to her How did that work? I didnt care as my wife was looking for a mother, and she hadnt had one for since she was 15.. The only problem i can see is nothing will be personal with you two.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 That is very true. beginning to think I need to go on assignment with work to somewhere else in the world whre she can't follow. On the negative side, muy mum says I am just liek my dad and thefore she is better off without me! but they have been happily (as far as I can see) married for over 30 years! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted June 18, 2009 Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 Marriage is the most difficult job i have ever endeavored.. Y'all will grow and not always the same direction, but everything will change. Some of my peers on here that have been married for a right good spell can tell you the same thing. It is a partnership, fifty ******** fifty.. And there is no room for any one else in your private affairs. I do not know you are you gal, but you need to be honest with yourself as forever is a bloody long time, and she can make it hell for you if she wants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 It is not her that I am worried about, I will more than happily spend the rest of eternity with her, but her mother butting in, that is a different matter which hi need to sort out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 The mrs needs to cut the tie from them that I did years ago so WE can make the deicisions for our future family, not grandparents Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 Juat proper;y rerad your earlier post, my mum has, on occasion, said that my girfriend is too goood me for me. Not what a mum should do surely! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MM Posted June 18, 2009 Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 somebody will need a large coffee this morning. PS< hope your mother in law dont read this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthegearandnoidea Posted June 18, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 Have you had a few this evening?... My head hurts! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted June 18, 2009 Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 Head hurts Moderation my boy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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