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mattyg1086

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  1. Hi eveyone, has anybody got any experience of forex trading or matched betting. Or any ideas of how to make an extra few quid a month? I'm looking for somewhere to put 50-100 quid a month to try to earn me a few extra quid
  2. I never talk about my sex life it's our mutual friends say things that they do and I'm thinking in my head I must be really boring. I wouldn't tell anyone about my sex life that would be very disrespectful to my wife
  3. thank you this was helpful We have had a chat today and I think we will try to stay together this was not the sole reason but the straw that broke the camels back so to speak we have been growing apart for a while I feel and I was/am scared that I will lose her. I work nights which probably doesn't help and am trying to move onto the day shift where I work to get more time together in the evenings however we both work shifts so hopefully it will be ok.
  4. agreed if that happened to me I'd say crack on and just walk out the front door in the clothes I was standing in. I worry that this is something she has never tried before and wanted to what else is there
  5. I am 30 and she is 29 we have been together since I was 15 and married for 8 years. We have a 5 year old and a 3 year old. You are right she should be able to do what she wants but I don't have to be happy about it. Maybe I have a stupid view of what a wife is or should be right or wrong that's how I feel and that's been ruined now. I always liked the fact that she was not like this and I felt that I was marrying above myself which made me work harder for things that I felt we should have for our family. This is not the only problem that we have we are probably different people now that when we were younger but I don't know what questions to ask to find the problem and how to fix it. We don't do things that I hear our other married friends talk about sex life being only one of them. I cannot stand smoking I find it very unattractive in a woman and she has changed my opinion of her now which I am very sad about. I wonder Wether she will be encouraged to try something else next or wet her I will still be able to be intimate with her now after this. When I found out Saturday night we had a row and I shouted I am disgusted with her and have slept on the sofa since. Hope I have answered all your questions. She says it's no big deal she just wanted to try it and she didn't like it. I don't know if she is saying that because of how I reacted or if she is going to do it again Im lost at the minute I've never been with anyone else and have no desire to
  6. Well sorry but I don't feel like I've got anywhere to turn to and this seemed like as good a place as any as it's kind of impartial and we don't really know each other do we. I think it's time we went to marriage councelling. The problem is I never though she would even consider smoking weed untill her friends started on about it what if they suggest she try something else next. The stupid image I had of her as a sweet and innocent wife has gone now and that was something that I really liked about her among many other things. And I just saddens me. I have tried to provide a good life for them all but we don't do hardly any of the things that we used to.
  7. My wife and I have been together since we were teenagers but the last few years I guess we have been slowly changing. She smoked weed at the weekend with her friends and I am disgusted with her for it I never thought shed do that and I liked the fact she hadn't and was inoccent of these sort of things. I've been on the sofa since and wondering wether to leave or stay I cannot stand women who smoke it's so unattractive. Am I being stupid? Should I stay? I'll always love her but this has turned me right off her now oh and just to make it more complicated we have two children together
  8. It's not that cash is tight the way I look at it there is no point in buying an expensive are that I put 25-30K on a year because I lose so much money with the mileage I do. So I try not to spend a lot of money just to throw it up and down the motorway just looking to see if I can get a 4x4 that will cost similar to run
  9. Will I get 40 mpg from one. And also cruise control is nice especially on the motorway
  10. So guys I'm looking at new cars. My current car is a vectra saloon I bought this as I do a 90 mile round trip to work 4 days a week and the terrain I had before was a bit too expensive and had a few issues anyway the vectra is fine but I want to get back into a 4x4 as I love them but I need 40 mpg+ ideally and 5 seats room in the boot for two dogs and the usual gear. I do a lot of motorway miles and at the weekend it's just driving round the lanes and fishing and shooting and the odd private job ( I'm an electrician ) I want to spend no more than 4-4500 I'm looking at X trails and freelanders at the moment but am looking for ideas Cheers
  11. Hopefully we have talked our manager out of it as we don't really want to do it. I she works out how much money she would save then we are a screwed but I hope that's the end of it for now. Cheers everyone for your help and experiences
  12. Does anyone know the actual weekly hours or how to work it out. I'm mot sure I like the idea of working most weekends but if that's how it has to be. I am an electrician and I do work for a colleague that has his own company so I may have to do more work for him to cover the shortfall Does anyone know the actual weekly hours or how to work it out. I'm mot sure I like the idea of working most weekends but if that's how it has to be. I am an electrician and I do work for a colleague that has his own company so I may have to do more work for him to cover the shortfall
  13. Just as I thought it's going to be balls. Trouble is the manager has worked out that is will be less money for us hence a saving for her so even if we don't want to do it she will give us 90 days consultation period and then we will be on it anyway. Also its only something like one full weekend off in 8 weeks I believe. So less money and I will have to work weekends I'm really not liking the sound of this
  14. I currently do 4 12 hour shifts a week Monday to Thursday. They are thinking of making us all go on to 4 on 4 off 12 hour shifts. We get paid for 11 hours per shift as we get deducted an hour for lunch so that is 44 hours per week we are paid currently. My question is how much would we get paid if it went to 4 on 4 off as I've been told it is a pay cut
  15. Weren't ridge backs breed to stop people? Why are they letting thier dogs behave like that anyway I would not tolerate my staffy behaving like that towards people and because of the breed he is he would get put down so what's the difference. Like has been said before if it was a child on thier own or you weren't there what could have happened doesn't bare thinking about just so someone can have a pet. Ridiculous
  16. If this is about people abusing children I can't watch it will make me cry. I once worked in the house of a lady who fostered children that this sort of thing happened to by thier parents and she kept a folder full of pictures of he babies she called them and she showed us this folder and knew everything about each of the children that she had looked after thier favourite food tv programme everything and she was crying I was crying and the bloke I work with was crying after she told us some of the things that had happened to the kids and some of them went back to thier parents I couldn't believe it. Children are the future as corny as it may sound a child that grows up in that environment is more likely to go on and do it themselves when they are older just what sort of society are we creating for ourselves in the future
  17. Yea so I'm doing pretty much what others are doing I use seaweed powder for vitamins on recommended to me by a friend is this actually worth the money or should I use something else. I'm pretty happy with thier condition and the staffy has never been to the vets ill and is very rarely if ever sick whereas my older staffy that I had to have put down a few years ago was very sick and had alergies and was only fed dry food which the vet told me caused some of the problems
  18. I feed a mix of dry biscuits and raw food. Are there any supplements I should be feeding I have a 7 year old staffy and a one year old springer. Is it better to feed once per day or twice? I've always done the dogs dinner in the evening after I've eaten mine and then left the bowls down and they finish whatever they didn't eat in the evening (biscuits)the next day
  19. Well I guess your right ignore it it is
  20. I posted a video of a boxing day meet and said that I'd love to go to one. A family friend has posted a sarcastic comment about how nothing like good will to all me than ripping a defenseless animal apart. This guy is a fisherman who has always owned jack Russells am I wrong in thinking he's an idiot and that Jack Russell are bred for rats and foxes I don't know what to say to it. I know it's petty and it's only facebook but I'm going to have to see this guy soon and I don't know how to respond to it
  21. Green tea and manuka honey. My mrs has a chest infection and has been coughing for a couple of weeks and both daughters were ill . Although this week I've been fighting something I've been waking up dripping with sweat but not feeling hot but I've managed to avoid the worst of the bug
  22. Wrote my wife's car off three weeks ago. I always thought whiplash was rubbish but my neck is still aching now
  23. Wish I could retire at 31 good luck to him
  24. Just looking to start putting money into something that I can see money coming back each month. Anyone got any other ideas
  25. I didn't think it was as good as it was when they were on top gear but I will still watch it to see if it improves they seemed to be trying too hard to be funny whereas before it was watching them having fun that was funny
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