simjakcal Posted May 30, 2014 Report Share Posted May 30, 2014 as said get him his own sim card,,i would also mention it to her why you've had to get him one,,he's ur son,you got a right to protect him...also that she keeps any of her dodgy relationships away from your son...im sure you have him plenty,so she has plenty of free time to do as she pleases.....hope you get it sorted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mungler Posted May 30, 2014 Report Share Posted May 30, 2014 As an aside I'd take photos of the texts - they might come in handy one day if there's a to do at Court about who is / is not being a good parent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
overandunder2012 Posted May 30, 2014 Report Share Posted May 30, 2014 Can you not buy a new sim card for your young un that way it will not happen again and maybe save you some grief. most sensible thing iv read here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woody walloper Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 buy the lad his own phone and lose her one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cranfield Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 Some inappropriate posts have been removed, keep the discussion sensible, or this thread will be closed, or removed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kes Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 It is difficult - this is your business but all I can say is, if it were me, I would do as mungler says - print a copy of the texts (s) and keep handy, buy a new sim or block that number. You are going to have to mention why you have done this to your wife (she'll get to know) and just say someone seems to have been sending texts to your sons phone you dont recognise you just blocked it/new sim - does she know who it is - you'd rather they didnt, whoever it is. I would not let on I know the content but keep the copy of any texts on your sons phone which should not be there. Your wife will recognise it could have been much worse, and you dont look like your are prying or wish to be involved - dont forget you have an SGC so being sqeaky is a good idea, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
955i Posted May 31, 2014 Author Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 It is difficult - this is your business but all I can say is, if it were me, I would do as mungler says - print a copy of the texts (s) and keep handy, buy a new sim or block that number. You are going to have to mention why you have done this to your wife (she'll get to know) and just say someone seems to have been sending texts to your sons phone you dont recognise you just blocked it/new sim - does she know who it is - you'd rather they didnt, whoever it is. I would not let on I know the content but keep the copy of any texts on your sons phone which should not be there. Your wife will recognise it could have been much worse, and you dont look like your are prying or wish to be involved - dont forget you have an SGC so being sqeaky is a good idea, To be honest, if I feel that my lad will be harmed in any way, my sgc is the last thing I am worried about. Spoke to her about it last night, got all the usual accusations that I shouldn't be reading it but explained it is my sons phone, not hers. Ended semi-ok but time will tell. Thanks for all the (useful) advice chaps. Has been a tough one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kes Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 Being straightforward is always best - hard to call it for you but fully understand your son must come first. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisherman Mike Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 (edited) Now put it out of your mind.. Nothing good will come of it if you start interfering.... just acrimony.. Edited May 31, 2014 by Fisherman Mike Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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