mikky Posted April 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Hi fella, Bootstrap pulling time. With your sister's days numbered, you need to be the support to help her get through a time that will be increasingly difficult for her. Plenty of time to feel sorry about stuff once she has gone. So, it is Bucket List time!! Speak with your sister and find out all the things in life she would like to try to achieve before it is too late; your role will be to help her achieve as much as possible. If possible, post the list on here-maybe some of us could help with some of her list. NEVER be afraid to cry, NEVER be afraid to ask to talk to/with someone and NEVER be negative in front of your sister, this is your task for the future. It sounds harsh, but I lost my sister when she was 27 to cancer - and also my father 2 months earlier to the same thing. The worse year in my family history. Both had Bucket Lists and felt trying to achieve the goals gave them a reason to keep pushing on. So, chin up, ever onwards and make the most of every second. You cannot fix the problem, but you sure as hell can help sister make the most of her time. Good luck fella. Beretta 06 cheers for all the comments ,especially this one, mikky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Marty Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Terrible my friend nothing else I can say... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asa Bear Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Hi fella, Bootstrap pulling time. With your sister's days numbered, you need to be the support to help her get through a time that will be increasingly difficult for her. Plenty of time to feel sorry about stuff once she has gone. So, it is Bucket List time!! Speak with your sister and find out all the things in life she would like to try to achieve before it is too late; your role will be to help her achieve as much as possible. If possible, post the list on here-maybe some of us could help with some of her list. NEVER be afraid to cry, NEVER be afraid to ask to talk to/with someone and NEVER be negative in front of your sister, this is your task for the future. It sounds harsh, but I lost my sister when she was 27 to cancer - and also my father 2 months earlier to the same thing. The worse year in my family history. Both had Bucket Lists and felt trying to achieve the goals gave them a reason to keep pushing on. So, chin up, ever onwards and make the most of every second. You cannot fix the problem, but you sure as hell can help sister make the most of her time. Good luck fella. Beretta 06 That's a great post. Get your sister to make a bucket list and stick it on here. Let's see if the PW massive can help in any way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iced Tiger Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 So sorry to hear the sad news about your sister. The bucket list idea is a good one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browning123 Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Sorry to hear your bad news - I just lost my brother to the disease who was also my best friend & shooting partner! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viking Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 sorry to hear your sad news mate. i know how you feel as 10 years ago my girlfriend got breast cancer at 23, she managed to fight it off, but in may last year it came back, 2 cancer tumors behind her lungs, sadly its stage 4 she was given 3 months to 3 years, not a thing thay can do, she is only 34. you just have to be stronger than you ever thought you could be. lee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KPV4 Posted April 11, 2013 Report Share Posted April 11, 2013 I'm so sorry to hear your sad news, words can't describe. I know it is easier to say than do, but keep positive and make the most of the time you have together so you will have some precious memories to cherish. Keep your chin up, good luck to you both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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