linny Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 i have replied five times to this but there is only three showing must have been removed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TJ91 Posted February 16, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 (edited) i have replied five times to this but there is only three showing must have been removed Dam them mods haha 22 acceptable for your 19year old haha Pm inbound linny Edited February 16, 2013 by TJ91 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linny Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 nice one joe ill tell her better than an old perv in his 40's who should no better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TJ91 Posted February 16, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 Don't worry pm isn't me asking permission to date the daughter haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
novice cushie shooter Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 when i was 26 i had a girlfriend who was 43 at the time. we had loads in common and was just meant to be some fun. we ended up falling in love moving in and had 3 great years together. the time came where i wanted to have my own family as she had 2 off her own. no regrets. i did what i wanted to do even tho others were not keen on it. its no bad thing imho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magman Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 Lack of pic's in this thread Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linny Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 (edited) can i take your sister out NO WHAT ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER WELL ???? Edited February 16, 2013 by linny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magman Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 and a pic of you ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linny Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 THATS MY SISTER WE ARE TWINS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magman Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 hope your shaven Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TJ91 Posted February 16, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 can i take your sister out NO WHAT ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER WELL ???? She seemed a sensible lass when I saw you all...therefore, my chances are nil haha. Cracking pic there btw. Keep in touch linny mate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craftycarper Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 I think there's a bit of hypercriticism here, basically it's only because its your sister that there's a problem and your being over protective which is understandable. I can guarantee that most men on here would jump at the opportunity if it presented itself to them and the last thing to enter their mind would be if they was a perv Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craftycarper Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 I mean come on its 20 - 40 something or another.... Hardly operation yewtree is it ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluejay22 Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 I`m old school. I`d just be happy she didn`t fall for a 16 stone crewcut veggie lezzie with a deep seated hatred for blokes & guns. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linny Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 I think there's a bit of hypercriticism here, basically it's only because its your sister that there's a problem and your being over protective which is understandable. I can guarantee that most men on here would jump at the opportunity if it presented itself to them and the last thing to enter their mind would be if they was a perv sorry not me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craftycarper Posted February 16, 2013 Report Share Posted February 16, 2013 Look at it this way, she might have come home and bedded a 43 year old woman with missing teeth and tattoos that was built like arnie....then I would be ****** Oops someone beat me to it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayano3 Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 I have teenage daughter's and would not be too happy if they come home with 40 something partners. The older you get the age gap seems to get less significant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
activeviii Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 What would call a 'normal' age gap between male n female in a relationship? My sister of 20years has started seeing a bloke of 43years..seein him for 2months (aparently) n is nw moving in with him. He has a daughter just a few years younger than her.. Am I the only 1 who thinks this is wrong in so many ways?? Yes..i know to expect the **** taking and stupid comments but honest answers would be appreciated All im going to say is... ... wait till your 40. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
escortmagnum999 Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 id be more worried that they are moving in together after 2 months, rather than the age gap. As others have said, i dont think it will last but time will tell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tam Posted February 17, 2013 Report Share Posted February 17, 2013 My partner Lynelle - Hopper on here is 7 years younger than me & we have been togeather for ever (well it seems like that & I still love her as much as tht day we met Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tubbiescooter Posted February 18, 2013 Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 As long as he treats your sister right that's all that matters mate if she's happy be happy for her and put in the effort that's what is brothers are supposed to do it may fade away but then it may become a solid relationship that lasts forever you have no way of knowing but she has to make her own mistakes in life knowing she'll always have her brother there when she needs him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aris Posted February 18, 2013 Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 We have friends who have a fairly large gap. She is in her mid 40's, he is in his 70's. They have small children - one is 13, the other is 9. They seem to get on well. Dad is retired and has grown up children (and grandchildren) from a previous marriage. He takes care of the new children. She still works. I suppose it may seem awkward as people assume he is the kids granddad I can understand the OP's concern - i'd probably be concerned too if it were my sister. At the same time, some 20 year olds are immature, some are very mature indeed. If she's a girl with her head on straight and she's not sacrificing any of her own ambitions of career/education and she's happy with this guy - then why not. As has been said, it may well take a natural course and fizzle out. Last thing you want to do is alienate her for making her own adult choices. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TJ91 Posted February 18, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 She has nothing to sacrifice, shes a lazy little **** I would not call her mature either..more like a stroppy teen most of the time. The guy seems very gobby, met him yest, more like an immature kid himself so seems a good match as far as i can see. I think its wrong but live and let live. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neil3728 Posted February 18, 2013 Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 All you can really do is be there is case anything bad does happen. If she is happy thats all that should matter to you, anything else just bite your tougue and carry on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted February 18, 2013 Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 Sounds like the perfect situation but from experience the thing you need to know is does he make a habit of girls that age and younger, i know a couple of men who always seemed to have girls of 15/16 about and through their 40's and 50's made a habit of it occasionally one a bit older but not much. Obviously your sister is 20 and if its a one off for him I would be less concerned than the ones I know. They really were on the limit of paedophiles but stayed just legal most of the time absolutely horrible but its amazing how they brainwashed the girls and somehow stayed part of a small community Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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