Pinkella Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 (edited) Why would casual S E X make someone feel better when they are still in love with another person? Is it a man thing? Really sorry you feel like this, its a horrible place to be and time is the only healer. don't bottle it up, talk about it and listen to others experiences. Your situation is unique just like everyone's is, but we are all human and we can all relate to some degree what you are feeling. I genuinely hope you can sort your self out, find a new abode, make the new job the best ever and everything else will fall into place eventually. Keep busy Edited August 6, 2013 by Pinkella Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jasper3 Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 As many have said..we all got that T-shirt if one of you wasn't happy , its pointless staying together.... pick yourself up, dust your self off and move on.... life is far to short for moping around.. make a list of 10 things you would love to do...then do them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnFreeman1310 Posted August 6, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Thanks for the advice guys but meeting sombody new isn't a option at the moment it wasnt her i was unhappy with it was the situation we was in at the time she has told me she wants i come back but her family are making it difficult. John Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archie-fox Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Time can be a great healer mate, I felt like you did after splitting up with a girl I live with for 4 years...you feel like your world is going to end.. 8 years later im married to someone better and have the best relationship ive ever had... the truth is you have just got to get your head down with your new job, work hard and things will come good in the end.. these things happen for a reason.. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Geordie Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 I can't understand the getting laid comments? I wouldn't bother to be honest I wouldn't put my sexual health at risk for one, and secondly if you still have feelings for your Ex, your going to be thinking of Her while your having sex with someone else! That is not fair of the other girl really in my view! It should never be just sex I am old fashioned in that I believe it should be MORE than just carnal. It should be intimate, They don't call it making love for nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spinach Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 .....and that from a Geordie. Good luck if things need changing it will and can only be for the better . Time to focus on the future not the past. John. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mungler Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 I can't understand the getting laid comments? I wouldn't bother to be honest I wouldn't put my sexual health at risk for one, and secondly if you still have feelings for your Ex, your going to be thinking of Her while your having sex with someone else! That is not fair of the other girl really in my view! It should never be just sex I am old fashioned in that I believe it should be MORE than just carnal. It should be intimate, They don't call it making love for nothing. Nice bit of public information broadcasting to appeal to the female members of the forum. Very shrewd if you get a **** out of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Why would casual S E X make someone feel better when they are still in love with another person? Is it a man thing? Really sorry you feel like this, its a horrible place to be and time is the only healer. don't bottle it up, talk about it and listen to others experiences. Your situation is unique just like everyone's is, but we are all human and we can all relate to some degree what you are feeling. I genuinely hope you can sort your self out, find a new abode, make the new job the best ever and everything else will fall into place eventually. Keep busy Its simple, you get a fitter younger model with better baps and you rapidly forget the ex. You can sit about moping about being dumped or you can move on. One is far better for your sanity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustJon Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Its simple, you get a fitter younger model with better baps and you rapidly forget the ex. You can sit about moping about being dumped or you can move on. One is far better for your sanity Fitter, younger, better baps - no Someone you enjoy spending time with and that teaches you to smile again ... Then sleep with them - yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 so you'd enjoy jumping on an older plumper version with baps round her navel but a good personality........... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bangon Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Its simple, you get a fitter younger model with better baps and you rapidly forget the ex. You can sit about moping about being dumped or you can move on. One is far better for your sanity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old rooster Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Thanks for the advice guys but meeting sombody new isn't a option at the moment it wasnt her i was unhappy with it was the situation we was in at the time she has told me she wants i come back but her family are making it difficult. John Sounds like it could still be "game on" if you just sort the family bit out. If she means that much to you man up and get it sorted!! Been there done that and lost most of the "T" shirts along the way, if it doesn't work out have a break then get back out there as others have suggested. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jasper3 Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Thanks for the advice guys but meeting sombody new isn't a option at the moment it wasnt her i was unhappy with it was the situation we was in at the time she has told me she wants i come back but her family are making it difficult. John if you love each other so much...why are you letting your families interfere ? my farther in law smiles at me with gritted teeth.....but i married his daughter,,,,,not him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LondonLuke Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 The time for talking has passed. It's time to stock up on Durex, sign up to a few dating sites, trim your pubes and find somewhere local with cheap Bacardi Breezers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuji Shooter Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 As they say "A holes yer goal" Onwards and upwards. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkella Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Its simple, you get a fitter younger model with better baps and you rapidly forget the ex. You can sit about moping about being dumped or you can move on. One is far better for your sanity Sounds very shallow to me, if all you do is poke it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Yup Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkella Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Yup lol and what do they get out of it or is that not important? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Usually about 4 pints of strongbow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old rooster Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Usually about 4 pints of strongbow Drat! thats another keyboard gone! Sounds like you are a bit poor on the old chat up lines if you need to stump up for 4 pints though? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuji Shooter Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Usually about 4 pints of strongbow Or you can drink the extra 4 yourself and go ugly early. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LondonLuke Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 lol and what do they get out of it or is that not important? This is not an all male thinking, girls think like this too (admittedly a lower percentage than men) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 This is not an all male thinking, girls think like this too (admittedly a lower percentage than men) not going by mates on POF seems they are very willing participants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkella Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 Or you can drink the extra 4 yourself and go ugly early. LOL GO UGLY EARLY LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustJon Posted August 6, 2013 Report Share Posted August 6, 2013 not going by mates on POF seems they are very willing participants Agreed, I've been 'used' a couple of times... But the percentage of men who do it would be higher I think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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