henry d Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 Let him answer, don`t answer for others Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rewulf Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 1 minute ago, henry d said: Let him answer, don`t answer for others Sorry teacher Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henry d Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 Its just good manners Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rewulf Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 3 minutes ago, henry d said: Man up, get with the programme you wimp, are you a man or a mouse, your just like your mother aren`t you.... You mean all those horrible things that have pummeled us into the mice we have become Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henry d Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 8 minutes ago, Rewulf said: You mean all those horrible things that have pummeled us into the mice we have become Oh the irony Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rewulf Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 5 minutes ago, henry d said: Oh the irony It was supposed to be . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 40 minutes ago, henry d said: It is well known and I don`t think you should be asking for links to that unless you are in youth work or child care services Well have you got a link then? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henry d Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 (edited) No, in my case they were academic papers and I am no longer able to access them as I am no longer a student. Might be able to access them soon, what is your question? **EDIT** On second thoughts, there may be a book that you can access from google books or similar too, depending on the Q Edited April 20, 2018 by henry d Forgot summat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 2 minutes ago, henry d said: No, in my case they were academic papers and I am no longer able to access them as I am no longer a student. Might be able to access them soon, what is your question? I don't have a question; ehb102 claimed that girls are secretly seeing doctors due to internal injuries caused via anal sex. It's a surprising statement to make in my opinion, so worthy of a link to substantiate it, I thought. You seemed to think I shouldn't be asking so you can let him answer if you prefer not to answer for others. I'm not six and wont be told what I should and shouldn't be asking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henry d Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 OK, my reason was I don`t know you and you could be some lowlife who gets off on something like that, so I wondered what q`s you had, as I have seen similar articles and have spoken with rape crisis and health care professionals on this and similar subjects. What would make you think something like that should be readily available? I answered as I thought I could help, sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rewulf Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 17 minutes ago, henry d said: I answered as I thought I could help, sorry! 1 hour ago, henry d said: Let him answer, don`t answer for others 1 hour ago, henry d said: Its just good manners 1 hour ago, henry d said: Oh the irony Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henry d Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 2 hours ago, Rewulf said: I think he was thinking a link to a news article , or is that restricted too ! There is a subtle difference between thinking and knowing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rewulf Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 1 hour ago, henry d said: OK, my reason was I don`t know you and you could be some lowlife who gets off on something like that, 31 minutes ago, henry d said: There is a subtle difference between thinking and knowing Youre right there is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 Certainly don't think people should be asking for links to these sort of things, when i did my child protection course there was a right mix of people in the room, sports coaches, teachers and social workers. Some of the things people said and scenarios we were given were truely horrible, the sort of thing most normal folk wouldn't even entertain, this is why for me monitoring what your kids are doing on the internet is very important. one example, when you or your kids go swimming you will see signs saying no photography, possibly no phones, yet most folk aren't watching the swimming there on line, we were told that people take pictures of kids then photo shop them onto other pictures, i had never imagined anything like that until i did the course. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rewulf Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 3 minutes ago, Mice! said: Certainly don't think people should be asking for links to these sort of things, when i did my child protection course there was a right mix of people in the room, sports coaches, teachers and social workers. Some of the things people said and scenarios we were given were truely horrible, the sort of thing most normal folk wouldn't even entertain, this is why for me monitoring what your kids are doing on the internet is very important. one example, when you or your kids go swimming you will see signs saying no photography, possibly no phones, yet most folk aren't watching the swimming there on line, we were told that people take pictures of kids then photo shop them onto other pictures, i had never imagined anything like that until i did the course. I know I shouldnt be answering for Scully but He asked for substantiation of (what I thought too) was a pretty wild claim. No one asked for videos or pictures of 'internal injuries' but a link that could somehow back the story up. Im not saying ehb is lying, she may well be in the medical profession and deal with it personally. Or she may have 'heard' it somewhere. As far as your course, Im sure there are examples and scenarios that are truly shocking. But to do the job ,you need to grasp the depths of human depravity, and more importantly ,not fall apart when confronted with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The gouse Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 I will ask this question if your son/ daughter got a contract to play sport for the county, and say the child is 10 to 15 years old so the contract needs signing by mum/dad. Would you sign this??? when you sign you give the right for the media to interview them take photos of them and put Pictures on loads of internet sites. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 1 hour ago, Rewulf said: I know I shouldnt be answering for Scully but He asked for substantiation of (what I thought too) was a pretty wild claim.No one asked for videos or pictures of 'internal injuries' but a link that could somehow back the story up. This. Thanks Rewulf. If you're going to make claims such as the one I was referring to, then you should at least be prepared to back it up or don't bother to post it, but don't play the pompous bleeding heart by telling us what questions we should be asking, please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
motty Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 35 minutes ago, The gouse said: I will ask this question if your son/ daughter got a contract to play sport for the county, and say the child is 10 to 15 years old so the contract needs signing by mum/dad. Would you sign this??? when you sign you give the right for the media to interview them take photos of them and put Pictures on loads of internet sites. Why wouldn't you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The gouse Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 5 minutes ago, motty said: Why wouldn't you? So you would sign like most parents would? Like we did even so allowing them to put photos of your child all over social media.? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
motty Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 56 minutes ago, The gouse said: So you would sign like most parents would? Like we did even so allowing them to put photos of your child all over social media.? Yep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The gouse Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 We did sign and for the best part of two years was not a problem. We had a knock on the door with three men dress in suits they where CID They came in with this folder just full off pictures of my son for two years this dirty D****** was at the grounds he was playing at on is phone he had hundreds of pictures of my son not just county ground but is club ground also. This dirty piece of work put is CV in to be a coach at the club my son played for with false passport false driving license and CRB checks. this piece of **** did 400 mile round trip to where he was playing he had photos of my son in are garden he was apprehended in a hotel a mile from the ground he was playing at the following day. The county’s have web site where the players get feedback from other county’s and vise-verses all players have access to this site. This site gives all player profiles ie home clubs This site is like a Facebook site that all the county players are on. this dirty ********* managed to get on this site so all players though they where chatting to feller players. this piece of **** was in the navy and had 11 years under is belt. When they got him the child porn they found was unbelievable of someone in is position. this all stemmed from allowing the county putting photos of my son on the net, social media sites. the good thing what come from this is that he was in the navy. so he will not see the sea for at least another 12 years. would have got 12 mouths if tried in court. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 That really is the scary side of the internet these days, you can never be sure who has access to the information that's online. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrPeanut Posted April 20, 2018 Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 5 minutes ago, Mice! said: That really is the scary side of the internet these days, you can never be sure who has access to the information that's online. I was talking to my wife about this the other day. She is an office manager for a sexual violence charity.... there probably isn’t an increase in the amount of dirty wronguns about, but the access they have to potential material has massively changed since social media took hold and the fact it has been normalised by completely leniant sentencing in the recent past has not been a deterrent in the slightest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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