mark_mjs93 Posted March 20, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 haha paul id love to go shooting or fishing but i have no permissions and the fishing season is closed lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ozzy Fudd Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 john i applaud you, sorry if i mispelt, but babby i am NOT going to get a conviction it wont go that far i have tempert but u have some awesome control, my outlet is rugby, im a hooker, and im the captain of my team, i used to box but i quit, im thanking you guys as you have the most knowlege of the people i know (that makes sense to me... good lad, dont let them **** things up for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Sweepy Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 Hun I think the lot on here will understand were you are coming from. And if you are having the **** time then i really feel for you. I also know what you are going though. What your just said was me god knows how many years ago. At 13 i was going though a rough time at home and school. And for so long i put up with it . I did on many times try to tell people who were around me .But i ended up with them useing it against me (long story which i will not go into) My family had their own problems. And i really did feel that they had enough on their plates without worrying about me. So i bottle it up . All i did for the next few years was cry and act tough.So i got into trouble. That was when the **** really started to hit the fan. I ended up running away from home three times as i felt unloved and i also got it into my head that if i disapeared no one would notice (i felt that bad) So at 14 i got my first socal worker.Who put the problem down to the bad home (this was so untrue) At 15 i was out of control my poor parents just couldnt cope with me anymore . So they pleaded for help. That help arrived in the form of two socal workers arriving on are door with a sign bit of paper saying that i was to be taking into care. I wont bore you with the detail of my time in care as it is not the time that i am particulary proud of . And those demons are best left buried. But if i can offer you any help them it would be go see the counseller tell them everything that you are feeling inside (just talking about it do help). Dont use your fist to prove the point hun.Use your brain and walk away .Looking back now i wish i had. But then i thought i was on my own .And i felt like i was too. But looking back now . I can see i was not . Their are people out there to help you .just dont be afraid to ask for it . And if you cant talk to them am only a pm away Take care xxxSuzy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sniperfox36 Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 there is only one thing a bully respects and thats another bully dont ever let anyone bully or intimedate you cus they will all ways do it i my self have never been bulled or been a bully as they are insecure low lifes that look around for weak or small individuals (no offence) your from bedford so am i my wife works at sharnbrook upper do you go there ? mick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lowlander Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 ive got a terrable temper aswell mate, i had this at school once, for about a month some lad wanted to fight me and was taking the mick and insulting me and generally taking the p**s, to the point where when he sqaured up to me i just said "fine then lets go" he walked straight off and has never said anything else to me in about 3 years. if i were you mate i'd just ignore them lowlander Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vole Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 It takes strength to admit you are having a bad time. On the plus side you can talk about it.Also you have caring parent.It is also good you are not developing a victim mentality as you are angry still. See what the counsellor has to say,even if only to make it look like you are trying. Martial arts a brilliant idea.Especally MMA. If the **** holes want to carry on the school yard stuff then let them.Just do not involve yourself.A conviction or even a caution will affect all aspects of your life from jobs to travelling abroad.In a few years you can laugh at the ****heads when they have nothing and you have a good career . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codling99 Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 just remember,you ll struggle with fac application if your convicted of any violance,took me 10 years longer than i hoped to get mine,never again am i gonna talk about or get involved in any violant actions,like john lennon now me,never angry,upset or get any ill feeling s towards another person. got to be good,sensible and law abiding mate,think guns ,and all will be calmed.takes a bigger man to walk away and bite ya lip. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mark_mjs93 Posted March 20, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 there is only one thing a bully respects and thats another bully dont ever let anyone bully or intimedate you cus they will all ways do it i my self have never been bulled or been a bully as they are insecure low lifes that look around for weak or small individuals (no offence) your from bedford so am i my wife works at sharnbrook upper do you go there ? mick NO BUT I HAVE A FEW FRIENDS THAT DO, sorry for caps lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shot shot Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 was bullied myself for a good few years, I'm a bottler, never told nobody about it, not even my friends. I have an extremely short temper, I mean, someimetimes something as simple as stubbing a toe can have me cursing and throughing punches at concrete walls! I managed to keep all the school stuff brimming on the surface, and then would beat the **** out of something at home (try chopping logs). The guys that bullied me were the sort that did it cause they thought they were the ******* bees knee's. I tried to ingore them, but in the real world, it doen't work, just remember to try and keep as calm as possible. O, and as mungler said, get yourself a small mountain of porn to get your mind off things p.s. if you're going to punch anything, make sure it's a nice flat wall, not the corner of a bath, or broken knuckles will ensue! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronster Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 perhaps you need to channel some of that anger through some contact sport other than rugby..like boxing or some form of self defence..once you become confident and can control your anger then the bullys are no longer a problem..plus it gives you something to focus on rather than dwell on...worked for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Saltashshooter Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 hi mate i no how you feel with the short temper, if you do hit him you'll get kicked out of school its a new ''policy'' that someone has thought up. something made me loose my temper and i was almost out but then they told me this so i had to keep cool lol i no how it feels when it builds up and just wont calm its not nice. i hope you get it sorted buddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lloyd90 Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 Just don't let it get to you mate and if someone hits you, give em one back Absolutely nothing wrong with defending yourself and I was told that by a senior Police Man! Somebody punched me in the ear tonight in rugby (Its still bloody ringing) so I give him one back, me bad ear - hi broken nose You can't just stand back whilst someone lays into you, if someone is just calling you names just laugh at them. How stupid are they Hope you feel better mate! Keep your chin up son I really hate bullies and people who try n intimidate people and make them feel small Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 This song always works for me Good call Young Mr. Shot shot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaun4860 Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 [quote name='mark_mjs93' im a hooker, Do you make much money from it?.... sorry just trying to cheer you up... shaun i'll get me coat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thumpersniper Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 good luck mate, sorry im a **** councilor, i look back at school and regret caring so much about the essays and stuff, they are important but having a life should come first. Also the teachers are pathetic when you look back at them and think about the sort of things they said/did! detention and lines trust me mate it feels like it goes real slow at the time but once it finishes college wizzes by. Best of luck P.S Two horses in a fridge, one says to the other brrrrrrr (o that joke sounds better when you say it lol) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 good luck mate, sorry im a **** councilor, i look back at school and regret caring so much about the essays and stuff, they are important but having a life should come first. Also the teachers are pathetic when you look back at them and think about the sort of things they said/did! detention and lines trust me mate it feels like it goes real slow at the time but once it finishes college wizzes by. Best of luck P.S Two horses in a fridge, one says to the other brrrrrrr (o that joke sounds better when you say it lol) Here is a Southern classic.. Two taters were in the microwave.. One tater says,'whew, sure is hot in here!' the other tater says,' Cool! a talking tater.' Soooooooo, perhaps this wasnt as funny as i had thought.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shot shot Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 Here is a Southern classic.. Two taters were in the microwave.. One tater says,'whew, sure is hot in here!' the other tater says,' Cool! a talking tater.' Soooooooo, perhaps this wasnt as funny as i had thought.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lloyd90 Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 2 eggs boilin in a pan, one looks at the other and says "Bloody hell its hot in here" and the first one replies "Wait til you get out, they smash ur fookin edd in" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronster Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 2 eggs boilin in a pan, one looks at the other and says "Bloody hell its hot in here" and the first one replies "Wait til you get out, they smash ur fookin edd in" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mark_mjs93 Posted March 20, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 lee thumper and bigthug your bloody ace, especially bugthug i like that, dont half cheer me up lol.... thanks fellas, you guys are great councillors... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeinVA Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 lee thumper and bigthug your bloody ace, especially bugthug i like that, dont half cheer me up lol.... thanks fellas, you guys are great councillors... My pleasure.. remember you sent the picture of the bunny to me 'cuz my niece like it She still asks me why the bunnie is sad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
airgunalex Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 im in my last year at college now i have managed to get throught it alright, i have done alot of athletics for my county over the years and from this i have got quite strong and from having this reputation for being strong no one bothers me. its great! get into a sport and hit the gym then most people wont try a thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mark_mjs93 Posted March 20, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 problem is im a really sporty person i am always running after school, i play rugby, i throw javelin, i long jump, i play a bit of footy, i play BasketBall, i play loads of stuff and i am pretty strong but still, lol its mainly stress, but i geuss once things are osrted ill be fine, 80% done just got swome english coursework and some shooting permissions to gain now thats all i need but its all i cant find lol, god stress really does suck.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boomstick Posted March 20, 2009 Report Share Posted March 20, 2009 A man walked into a bar and said 'ouch'. True story Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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