smig4373 Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 (edited) Do you know him? That's a pretty judgemental post based on some very flimsy evidence. Give the bloke a break Yes he invited comments by posting this on here, but that doesn't mean it's open season for the nasty personal digs so were not supposed to be judgmental then...sorry.... well done that man then... :friends: :ernyha: is that what he seriously expected to hear on here..im sorry if ive spoken out of turn BB... Nothing personal about my comment...it was a generalisation about such situations...The failed marriage card is only ever played after the bloke/woman has cheated...and moved on to a new bed..... And no...i dont know him...just as well really... Edited June 3, 2012 by smig4373 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blunderbuss Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 so were not supposed to be judgmental then...sorry.... well done that man then... :friends: :ernyha: is that what he seriously expected to hear on here..im sorry if ive spoken out of turn BB... Nothing personal about my comment...it was a generalisation about such situations...The failed marriage card is only ever played after the bloke/woman has cheated...and moved on to a new bed..... And no...i dont know him...just as well really... I'm not going to argue with you. Have a nice day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smig4373 Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 (edited) I'm not going to argue with you. Have a nice day. Not arguing BB... Did the OP think he was going to get everyones blessing.... My thoughts are with the 2 broken families that are sat at home probably devastated by the whole thing... :no: Edited June 3, 2012 by smig4373 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kdubya Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 Nothing personal about my comment...it was a generalisation about such situations...The failed marriage card is only ever played after the bloke/woman has cheated...and moved on to a new bed..... And no...i dont know him... In my book the fact you want to go elsewhere means its failed to start with, the rest is just timing, chap I work with thought his marriage was all hunky dory till his daughter married and left home then his wife said thats it I have brought the kids up as was seemingly my duty now I am off for some fun cheerio, leaving him to sell the house and start again, so yes people do "put up with it" at least till they grow some and decide what they really want, like this guy who has made his mind up and hats off to him for doing what he wants not what some self pontificating peter perfects think he should do. KW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swiss.tony Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 all the best wingnut hope your better now and your very happy now shame about your ferrets i was out with the lad who took them off you had a cracking nite out lamping last night all the best tony Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smig4373 Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 In my book the fact you want to go elsewhere means its failed to start with, the rest is just timing, chap I work with thought his marriage was all hunky dory till his daughter married and left home then his wife said thats it I have brought the kids up as was seemingly my duty now I am off for some fun cheerio, leaving him to sell the house and start again, so yes people do "put up with it" at least till they grow some and decide what they really want, like this guy who has made his mind up and hats off to him for doing what he wants not what some self pontificating peter perfects think he should do. KW yeah...were all perfect arent we... :no: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
four-wheel-drive Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 To be honest about it putting up a post like this was asking for trouble marriage is something that can affect us all deeply and everyone has there own opinion. I have said what I think others will not agree with me and I think it is best not to put one side of the thing you may be in the rite or in the wrong so I think it is best that you keep it to yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beeredup Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 in all honesty i think he had some balls to put this up on this forum as its rapidly becoming a bear pit where people get mauled quite often. while its a shame that they have broken up 2 seemingly happy couple to be together at least they had the decency to be up front about it rather than doing it on the sly until caught as often is the case! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
utectok Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 I'm sure there is more to the story that would put it in context. However its not a story I'd post in here!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beeredup Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 I'm sure there is more to the story that would put it in context. However its not a story I'd post in here!! well said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gixer1 Posted June 3, 2012 Report Share Posted June 3, 2012 Hope Yvonne didn't know a guy for 18 years as you may be out of luck if he face books her :yp: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnnythefridge Posted July 27, 2012 Report Share Posted July 27, 2012 Over the past 2 months my life has changed for the better and its all thanks to friends reunited. Its long story so it back,get the beers in and relax. It all began when my father finished his time in the RAF (1969) and we relocated to Newark on Trent in Nottinghamshire, while attending a school called bishop alexander i became very good friends with a young girl called Yvonne and it seemed we were inseperable right up to the age of 16 when something happened between us,we were both going out with some one else at the time, I was very Naieve when it came to women and didn't realise she had fallen head over heels for me,and because i didn't react to her advances she thought that i was not interested in her and within a few weeks she was out of my life, basically she disapeared and i never new where she went or what had happened to her. We both went our seperate ways for a considerable time, 30 years to be exact before i saw her name on friends reunited website, I sent her an e-mail asking her to contact me, 4 years went by before i recieved a reply, it turned out it was her daughter who spotted it and told her about it, when she saw it was from me she couldn't decide what to do as she didn't know how she would react after all that time apart. Eventually she sent me a message, we communicated via texts and e-mails for a while and she explained what had happened and why she felt she had to leave. Two months ago we met for the 1st time in 35 years, and we spent hours talking, we realised that we both still had very strong feelings for each other but were undecided as to what to do next, well we met a few more times and realised that we wanted to be together. There was however a major problem, we both had partners and had been married to them for a considerable time, we both felt that the right thing to do was to speak to each of them, explain the situation and take it from there. That was one of the hardest things i have ever had to do in my life was telling my wife of 22 years the whole story, she was extremely shocked at first, but realised that i had not set out to deliberately find someone else, to cut a long story short both of our partners have been very understanding about the situation and both of them now wish us the best for our futures. Two weeks ago we moved into a house and started our new lives together and have been extremely happy. Hi Wingnut, I'm pleased to hear that things are looking up for you both. 22yrs is a very long time. Nothing lasts forever. People change. 1st love never dies. Ride the endorphin rush and make the most of life. I wish you well on this new branch of your journey through life, and hope that you get a fair roll of the dies over the comming months. And if we are really lucky, may the price of the ammo fall too ! Regards, John. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pimpkiller Posted July 28, 2012 Report Share Posted July 28, 2012 that whole story sounds awful to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikky Posted July 28, 2012 Report Share Posted July 28, 2012 good luck to you mate....it must have took some soul searching... mikky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikky Posted July 28, 2012 Report Share Posted July 28, 2012 Hi Wingnut, I'm pleased to hear that things are looking up for you both. 22yrs is a very long time. Nothing lasts forever. People change. 1st love never dies. Ride the endorphin rush and make the most of life. I wish you well on this new branch of your journey through life, and hope that you get a fair roll of the dies over the comming months. And if we are really lucky, may the price of the ammo fall too ! Regards, John. And if we are really lucky, may the price of the ammo fall too ! :lol: :no: mikky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jega Posted July 28, 2012 Report Share Posted July 28, 2012 Jeremy Kyle here we come.! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parapilot Posted July 28, 2012 Report Share Posted July 28, 2012 My thoughts are with the 2 broken families that are sat at home probably devastated by the whole thing. +1, poor girl, 22 years, then dropped like a sack of ****, and shes done nothing wrong..... 30 years is a lot of time for someone to change, you hardly know this girl! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted July 29, 2012 Report Share Posted July 29, 2012 (edited) This thread is missing some detail before I can make up my mind. Please post up pictures of Yvonne and your ex missus so we can see if you "traded up". Secondly, which one is better in the sack, and which one cooks the best roast dinner? Edited July 29, 2012 by ME Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrispti Posted July 29, 2012 Report Share Posted July 29, 2012 Over the past 2 months my life has changed for the better and its all thanks to friends reunited. Its long story so it back,get the beers in and relax. It all began when my father finished his time in the RAF (1969) and we relocated to Newark on Trent in Nottinghamshire, while attending a school called bishop alexander i became very good friends with a young girl called Yvonne and it seemed we were inseperable right up to the age of 16 when something happened between us,we were both going out with some one else at the time, I was very Naieve when it came to women and didn't realise she had fallen head over heels for me,and because i didn't react to her advances she thought that i was not interested in her and within a few weeks she was out of my life, basically she disapeared and i never new where she went or what had happened to her. We both went our seperate ways for a considerable time, 30 years to be exact before i saw her name on friends reunited website, I sent her an e-mail asking her to contact me, 4 years went by before i recieved a reply, it turned out it was her daughter who spotted it and told her about it, when she saw it was from me she couldn't decide what to do as she didn't know how she would react after all that time apart. Eventually she sent me a message, we communicated via texts and e-mails for a while and she explained what had happened and why she felt she had to leave. Two months ago we met for the 1st time in 35 years, and we spent hours talking, we realised that we both still had very strong feelings for each other but were undecided as to what to do next, well we met a few more times and realised that we wanted to be together. There was however a major problem, we both had partners and had been married to them for a considerable time, we both felt that the right thing to do was to speak to each of them, explain the situation and take it from there. That was one of the hardest things i have ever had to do in my life was telling my wife of 22 years the whole story, she was extremely shocked at first, but realised that i had not set out to deliberately find someone else, to cut a long story short both of our partners have been very understanding about the situation and both of them now wish us the best for our futures. Two weeks ago we moved into a house and started our new lives together and have been extremely happy. So :unsure: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnnythefridge Posted July 29, 2012 Report Share Posted July 29, 2012 And if we are really lucky, may the price of the ammo fall too ! :lol: :no: mikky I know I'm asking a lot with the price of the ammo, but hey, a guy can dream can he ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ack-ack Posted July 29, 2012 Report Share Posted July 29, 2012 This thread is missing some detail before I can make up my mind. Please post up pictures of Yvonne and your ex missus so we can see if you "traded up". Secondly, which one is better in the sack, and which one cooks the best roast dinner? Bit cryptic. Why don't you explain in plain English man? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lord_seagrave Posted July 30, 2012 Report Share Posted July 30, 2012 Insert image: not_getting_the_point_of_forums_facepalm.jpg Palm-tacular. LS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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