ronttuk Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 well as i thought after keeping my son for xmas and the ex having to get a court order to get him back she has now told the police shes in fear of me or in fear of me harming myself so when i answered the bail fot the suggested criminal damage to her car the police took my guns certs everything untill this is all sorted they even took my air rifles!! now shes put in a complaint of harrasment so ive been re arested had my pc removed for investigation my phone held for investigation!!!!!!!!!!!! women dont you just love em !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the last engineer Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 jesus man what did you do ? i hope all works out for you, and your son. Martin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miffy Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 I lost my shotguns and firearms about 2 years ago......took 10 months to get the lot back and when i did get it all back all of my rifles and shotgun were damaged. Hope you get them back soon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starlight32 Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 well as i thought after keeping my son for xmas and the ex having to get a court order to get him back she has now told the police shes in fear of me or in fear of me harming myself so when i answered the bail fot the suggested criminal damage to her car the police took my guns certs everything untill this is all sorted they even took my air rifles!! now shes put in a complaint of harrasment so ive been re arested had my pc removed for investigation my phone held for investigation!!!!!!!!!!!! women dont you just love em !! Try to Keep your cool about it, its bloody annoying but you once it all settles down the police will have to have good reason to keep your guns and its up to them to prove you can't keep them. Hope it all works out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
young airgunner Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 holy **** dude, hope it all gets sorted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
il cacciatore Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 Maybe phone shooting organisation regarding the gun situation? Hope everything turns out alright. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cranfield Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 It might also be time to talk to a Solicitor (if you are not already doing so). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lurcherboy Posted January 4, 2007 Report Share Posted January 4, 2007 Ron, a beater on one of the shoots I work beat 7 shades out of a FEO that his wife ran off with, he got his guns back 9 months later. The police tags on the guns were a good conversation starter in the beaters wagon. Keep steady mate and don't make any f-u's :blink: LB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronttuk Posted January 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 jesus man what did you do :blink:? i hope all works out for you, and your son. Martin my ex who has been my best friend for to many years to remember came round my house and started an argument which got quite heated slammed her car door into me then called the police saying i kicked her door i got arrested for criminal damage,i had to answer bail on the 2nd jan to see if they was going to charge me,i got re arrested on the 2nd jan for harassment , trying to find out where my son was and if he was safe before xmas, i usually see him 3-5 times a week since the end of nov ive seen him twice for a cpl of hours. bearing in mind she let me see him for a cpl of hours he told me he was being taken to nottingham for at least a week poss two or if mummy wanted to stay indefinatly, so instead of me taking him back at 5pm as arranged when she phoned i told her im not bringing him back and shell have to take me to court.... the police were sent round my son was happy and safe so they left telling her they couldnt do anything, on xmas day the police turned up round my daughters to tell me my ex had made a charge of harrassment and to check to see if shane was ok, again they left quite happy he was looked after safe and happy, so now im on bail for criminal damage harassment and according to the police not conforming to my shotgun/firearms cert ? god knows as far as i can see they took 4 shotguns 1 .17hmr and a hw100 from my cabinet and listed it as 6 shotguns!!! with only 4 shotguns on my cert if thats breaking my cert conditions im a monkeys uncle if this breaks my conditions. god knows whats going to happen next,, you cant trust somthing that bleeds for a week and dont die!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Good luck it sounds like you're going to need it. The criminal damage charge if convicted is enough to loose you your guns for quite a while. By the sounds of it your wife has turned rather vindictive and knew how to kick you hardest! as said get a solicitor on it and if possible try talking to her sensibly. If there is any way you can get her to withdraw her statements before it goes to court then your life will be far easier. Plus you need to resolve it as amicably as possible for your sons sake! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonno 357 Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Remember gentlemen. This is only one side of the story Jonno Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mossy835 Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 well sorry two here that i find it hard two belive, that they can take your guns,never should be aloud.hope you get them back in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catamong Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Why was it necessary for your ex to have to get a court order to get her son back? Cat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SNAKEBITE Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Are you a member of BASC or some other organisation? Would they be able to advise? I can't understand why the guns were taken though :blink: Did she insinuate to the police that she was afraid of you using them in an improper manner? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 The police know this is a domestic incident thats going to go on for a while so now hes been charged with something they have no problem collecting the guns and holding them till its sorted out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronttuk Posted January 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Why was it necessary for your ex to have to get a court order to get her son back? Cat its not her son its OUR son,she reapeatedly stopped my contact with him since the beginning of december, i thought she might take him away to nottingham for however long she wanted to and as i have parenmtal rights and no residence order was in place i kept him untill one of us managed to get a residency order unfortunatly she got it and i never at the (momoment). from seeing your child gauranteed 3 times a week plus seeing him 3-4 times a week on a social side to not seeing him at all and everytime i made arrangments she cancelled them it does seem to pee you off a little Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MC Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Ron, I am sorry to hear of your troubles, as someone else has said keep your cool and don't rise to the bait. I know it can be hard at times but don't. I would certainly speak to someone in authority about your guns and the plod that took them away obviously didn't have a clue. And it is those idiots who shouldn't be holding guns not the likes of us. Cheers mate Martin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronttuk Posted January 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 Ron, I am sorry to hear of your troubles, as someone else has said keep your cool and don't rise to the bait. I know it can be hard at times but don't. I would certainly speak to someone in authority about your guns and the plod that took them away obviously didn't have a clue. And it is those idiots who shouldn't be holding guns not the likes of us. Cheers mate Martin thanks martin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the last engineer Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 how old is your son Ron ??, is he taking all this hassle well or is it affecting him as well. my ex shipped back to blighty in 94 so seeing my two sons became an annual pilgrimage, so i know how hard it can be on you, good luck in sorting it out to the best of all involved especialy your boy, keep smiling buddy as hard as it may be, keep in touch :blink: Martin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CARBINE Posted January 5, 2007 Report Share Posted January 5, 2007 well as i thought after keeping my son for xmas and the ex having to get a court order to get him back she has now told the police shes in fear of me or in fear of me harming myself so when i answered the bail fot the suggested criminal damage to her car the police took my guns certs everything untill this is all sorted they even took my air rifles!! now shes put in a complaint of harrasment so ive been re arested had my pc removed for investigation my phone held for investigation!!!!!!!!!!!! women dont you just love em !! Be cool and the best of luck--carbine--(colin) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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