Paul223 Posted November 24, 2013 Report Share Posted November 24, 2013 I think I would find it tough, but ultimately a mark of respect and a way to remember your friend in the field. The difficulty I would imagine would come when that clothing needs replaced, you would throw out old stuff of your own but may find that more difficult to do with your friend's? What would he want? indeed, it'd be like another part of the grieving process again, but at least you'd know his clothes were used for the purpose he bought them for and not binned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psyxologos Posted November 24, 2013 Report Share Posted November 24, 2013 Sorry for your loss. Wear them and remember him. If he was not your size, sell them and give the proceeds to a charity he would endorse... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chacotawas Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my best pal two weeks ago- not only the bravest man but the best shot by far that I've ever known- so I've an idea of what you're going through. I think- as it seems you do- that accepting the clothes along with the offer to donate to cancer research is the best idea. He'd want you to wear them I'm sure. All the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beeredup Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 sorry to hear about your loss, i think your mate would probably like you to have them ( i know wouldnt mind if i passed away and the mrs gave my shooting mates my kit) and as some said would be kinda like taking him shooting with you every time you wore em Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bruno22rf Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 It does you credit that you care enough to ask other peoples opinion rather than risk any kind of uncertainty or disrespect to his family or his memory. If ,as you wear it, it reminds you of him and the good times you spent together then I am at a loss to think of a greater way of honouring his friendship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
r1steele Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 I would wear them with pride and memories. Maybe keep them for special days or occasions so you don't wear the clothes out making theses memories last longer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blunderbust Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 I would wear them with pride and memories. Maybe keep them for special days or occasions so you don't wear the clothes out making theses memories last longer. I have to agree with r1steele. Sorry for your loss and think that it will be a good way to remember your friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
88b Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 It does you credit that you care enough to ask other peoples opinion rather than risk any kind of uncertainty or disrespect to his family or his memory. If ,as you wear it, it reminds you of him and the good times you spent together then I am at a loss to think of a greater way of honouring his friendship. Well put Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ollieollie Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 Condolences, get them on and remember him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aled Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 Sorry for your loss. But if the Bic C got me, i would be chuffed to bits to think of my old kit being used and enjoyed by people i liked. Cheers Aled Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gordon R Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 (edited) You would be honouring his memory. I was given a pair of decent snap caps the other week, from a very good friend. A former shooting partner of his had died - I also knew him - Roy Lomas - top bloke. I have little or no time for snap caps, but they are now engraved with Roy's name and I will use them. Edited November 25, 2013 by Gordon R Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JDog Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 I still use my father's and my grandfather's shooting suits. Neither man tells me if I have shot well but both chip in if I have shot badly. That keeps me on my toes and keeps my memories going. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jega Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 He was lucky to have such a considerate mate as you.I'm equally sure that like the majority of the shooting fraternity any sort of waste is an absolutely no no .He worked hard to get that gear mate so dont let it go unused .bud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WelshLamb Posted November 30, 2013 Report Share Posted November 30, 2013 (edited) I wear my dads belt, he died 5 years ago. The same one he used to smack my *** when I was a kid Edited November 30, 2013 by WelshLamb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirgoldalot Posted November 30, 2013 Report Share Posted November 30, 2013 Be with you there in spirit.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted December 1, 2013 Author Report Share Posted December 1, 2013 Cheers to everyone and I've kept some items which will be worn . Today's the day I visit the club we were both members of so I can pass the last items over to people that will use them . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delburt0 Posted December 1, 2013 Report Share Posted December 1, 2013 If he was a true freind and really liked you I'm sure he would want you to use is attire Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
novice cushie shooter Posted December 1, 2013 Report Share Posted December 1, 2013 Its a tough one. I was asked the same when my friend was killed in a rta. I couldnt bear myself to do it. Each to their own. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ditchman Posted December 1, 2013 Report Share Posted December 1, 2013 A serious question here. My friend lost the battle against cancer recently and his wife asked me if I'd like his shooting clothing . I'm unsure how I feel about wearing them :( and have told his wife I'll ask the guys at the club if they want what's left so it won't be wasted It's Laksen clothing which is nice and to be honest I needed a new fleece but is it right ? if i pegged it i would be dead chuffed knowing that my mates were wearing my shooting stuff and using them how they should be..................yep thats what i would really like.........and take the trouble to tell the deased wife what good use you are getting from it....it would bring a smile to her lips ..i bet you..........mate of mine charlie died of cancer and shared his guns out to mates and i printed off some photos of him from years ago when he was fit and well laughing with his mates and took them around to his missus ...she was overjoyed to see them as it was a part of his life she had never seen..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gordon R Posted December 1, 2013 Report Share Posted December 1, 2013 ditchman - top post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muddy Funker Posted December 1, 2013 Report Share Posted December 1, 2013 A serious question here. My friend lost the battle against cancer recently and his wife asked me if I'd like his shooting clothing . I'm unsure how I feel about wearing them :( and have told his wife I'll ask the guys at the club if they want what's left so it won't be wasted It's Laksen clothing which is nice and to be honest I needed a new fleece but is it right ? I've not read the rest of the replies but I'd say wear the clothing with pride. What are the options, give to charity, sell, throw away? I'd bet he'd want you wearing and making use of them. Sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted December 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted December 2, 2013 I called round today to tell her id kept a few things which made her smile plus she liked the club having some bits of which I gave tuition to a lad today using his knee pad so already it's helping others. She also informed me she had him buried in his other shooting gear which I think is a nice touch and made me smile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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