chris o Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 me and mrs orrell had a row last nite thought all blown over. then half hour ago avon woman comes round we dont have any money spur so she goes in my wallet with out bleeding asking which i was keeping hold of for some tobacoo and she took it again with out asking and left me with nowt. what would you guys recommend i do? to sought this out. and this is a regular thing. and i am due to start a job thanks to chefdon which she winged at because of me travel money needs to be saved and she aint happy bout having to hold money back. i am so wound up at the moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hushpower Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 hide your money? tobaco and cosmetics to my mind are luxuries and not essentials. travelling exspences to work are essiencials ,she needs to be made aware me thinks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amateur Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 (edited) me and mrs orrell had a row last nite thought all blown over. then half hour ago avon woman comes round we dont have any money spur so she goes in my wallet with out bleeding asking which i was keeping hold of for some tobacoo and she took it again with out asking and left me with nowt. what would you guys recommend i do? to sought this out. and this is a regular thing. and i am due to start a job thanks to chefdon which she winged at because of me travel money needs to be saved and she aint happy bout having to hold money back. i am so wound up at the moment. Recommend that she sign up as an Avon rep (or better still as a ******** distributor), then she can earn her own cash to spend without nicking yours Edited June 12, 2011 by amateur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poontang Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 To be honest, coming on here and asking for relationship advice is probably not the best idea you've had today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrispti Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 Dont keep money in your wallet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
claypop Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 To be honest if she cannot see the obvious financial problems, even after you pointed it out, I feel she never will. It sounds like she's quite young (possibly without siblings) & has always had what she wanted, when she wanted(Daddy's little girl), previously maxed-out on credit cards & has never worked thus unable to see the value of money & how it has to be earned. Sorry if I,m way off here & reading between the lines too much!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deputy dog Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 To be honest, coming on here and asking for relationship advice is probably not the best idea you've had today. I MUST AGREE WITH ABOVE POST :lol: :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OddJob Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 As with all problems, the best way is to try and sit down, explain things rationally and clamly, try and keep emotions out of it as it just muddies the water, and make a plan for the future from that point onwards. It's hard, but it's better long term than having a row when it's all just emotion and pent up frustration. 'Darling, we need to talk, he's a brew...'Good luck mate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berties Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 After 21years of marriage my trouble and strife still asks before taking money even if it's for the kids,it's all in the training Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartynGT4 Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 Easy, just lock your spare cash in your gun cabinet? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RC45 Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 I keep my money and valuables in the ammo safe, along with my documents. A mate of my came home one day his other half had sold his weekend car. She blew the lot, apparently the old bill could do nothing? What's hers is hers and what's yours is hers :o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Mongrel- Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 I keep my money and valuables in the ammo safe, along with my documents. A mate of my came home one day his other half had sold his weekend car. She blew the lot, apparently the old bill could do nothing? What's hers is hers and what's yours is hers :o Divorce/ceasement of the relationship sounds the only reasonable course of action there.....as well as selling off everything of value she may have(particularly jewellery, that'll go down exceptionally well if he sells off all of her jewellery!). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazza Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 Break her fingers. Job done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daz2202 Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 I keep my money and valuables in the ammo safe, along with my documents. A mate of my came home one day his other half had sold his weekend car. She blew the lot, apparently the old bill could do nothing? What's hers is hers and what's yours is hers :o Could you post up your full address please!!! Seriously tho my mrs of 17 years always asks when she needs some doe, she normally gets some but on occasion I do say no or why. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J@mes Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 Give up smoking and let your missus spend the money on something that makes her feel better about herself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sako751sg Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 Grow a set of balls fella. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mungler Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 I can't give any advice until I see a picture. Get the piccies up - minter or munter? We need to know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustJon Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 I can't give any advice until I see a picture. Get the piccies up - minter or munter? We need to know. Was waiting for this... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ST3V3 Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 Was waiting for this... fair comment though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaxiDriver Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 After 21years of marriage my trouble and strife still asks before taking money even if it's for the kids,it's all in the training You mean she's got you well trained :lol: Remember, You're in charge.........you've got her permission to say so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaxiDriver Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 (edited) Edit : Duplicated post Edited June 12, 2011 by TaxiDriver Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hushpower Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 in my eyes a normal good relation ship ,all money goes into one account an when its gone its gone. but if shes a brenda the spenda ,other ploys may have to be used :o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ricko Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 I had a wife who used to spend my money, she's now my ex-wife Sit down and talk to/with her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zapp Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 To be honest, coming on here and asking for relationship advice is probably not the best idea you've had today. 100% agreement with the above. Go and talk to her about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al4x Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 So she is trying to look better for you being from up north you have the approach she is taking or spend the money on 8 pints or so to achieve the same effect Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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