team tractor Posted September 25, 2021 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 14 hours ago, figgy said: Glad for you, best of luck in future finding happiness. I’ve been single 3 months . It’s the way forward I think dude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eddoakley Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 19 hours ago, team tractor said: Well I’m finally divorced. I had my absolute yesterday so I’ve had my Xmas present early 😀😀😀😀😀😀 Congrats. My nisi came through on my birthday which was definitely the best present I got. Funny because it was only a week or so earlier that she told a mutual friend that the divorce hadn't even started (And implied that she'd be taking me for even more money) Edd Just now, eddoakley said: Congrats. My nisi came through on my birthday which was definitely the best present I got. Funny because it was only a week or so earlier that she told a mutual friend that the divorce hadn't even started (And implied that she'd be taking me for even more money) Edd My birthday was last week so I'm still celebrating the nisi more than the birthday! Edd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted September 25, 2021 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 Thank you everyone. I think I’ve completed every dating site 😂 met lots of lovely ladies . I dated one off pof for a month . I was chatting to my mates about her and a random guy was with us . It turned out to be his brothers wife . I had to apologise and he was cool luckily . She was cheating. dated Italian, polish etc . The thing I’ve noticed is it’s awkward with kids . Some of the kids are crazy unfortunately and I’ve had to walk away from the most beautiful woman. 4 minutes ago, eddoakley said: Congrats. My nisi came through on my birthday which was definitely the best present I got. Funny because it was only a week or so earlier that she told a mutual friend that the divorce hadn't even started (And implied that she'd be taking me for even more money) Edd My birthday was last week so I'm still celebrating the nisi more than the birthday! Edd 6 weeks and a day then to go . Mines dragging her feet on the financial side now but I was only married 6 months before her affair started . Short term marriage. ive come to terms with what I might have to pay but it’s great I’m officially single . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted September 25, 2021 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 15 hours ago, loriusgarrulus said: Mel, your lucky Lin likes Sandy Back and Tams. 🤣🤣🤣 Congratulations. My Dad bought me a new expensive electric drill as a congratulations present when I divorced my 1st husband. Have a word with my dad please . I’d like a track saw 😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eddoakley Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 19 hours ago, team tractor said: Well I’m finally divorced. I had my absolute yesterday so I’ve had my Xmas present early 😀😀😀😀😀😀 Mine did very well on the financial side but it's done now and I'm just not thinking about it. Stings a bit though. Annoying too when she's now gone to CSA (cms now) even though we had an agreement and my boy lives with me and is with me at least half of the time. Still, thats another story and it seems that it might/should all get sorted soon. No time for me to be single though. The new mrs has been in my life for 20 years. Absolute pain and the source of constant frustration and annoyance, but we've realised that as we've not been able to escape one another for 20 years We should really just get married and get on with things. Can't wait. Edd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted September 25, 2021 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 29 minutes ago, eddoakley said: Mine did very well on the financial side but it's done now and I'm just not thinking about it. Stings a bit though. Annoying too when she's now gone to CSA (cms now) even though we had an agreement and my boy lives with me and is with me at least half of the time. Still, thats another story and it seems that it might/should all get sorted soon. No time for me to be single though. The new mrs has been in my life for 20 years. Absolute pain and the source of constant frustration and annoyance, but we've realised that as we've not been able to escape one another for 20 years We should really just get married and get on with things. Can't wait. Edd I’ve concentrated on me . I train and cycle lots . I fell in love with a girl I just can’t have . We want each other but I can’t handle her kids tbh . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eddoakley Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 I've stepped back from work and spend time with my boy. He keeps me busy and I fit everything else around him. The Mrs has a son of 11 and he's mad about fishing, shooting, dogs, being outdoors, quads and motorbikes, boats, planes, cars, gun shops....it's tough but I guess the 4 of us will just have to do those things hahahah. I'm sure we will manage. Certainly a different perspective on life since I got rid of the last one. Had spent a long time concentrating on work. Definitely not doing that now. Do whatever it is you enjoy and don't get stuck somewhere that doesn't make you happy. If you ain't having fun you ain't doing it right. Edd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 2 hours ago, team tractor said: Dated a pretty one this week . Police again 😂 It would make far more sense if you dated nurses, I mean you must meet loads! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 2 hours ago, team tractor said: 6 weeks and a day then to go . Mines dragging her feet on the financial side now but I was only married 6 months before her affair started . Short term marriage. ive come to terms with what I might have to pay but it’s great I’m officially single . I never understand that side of things, you didn't have kids, or buy a house together, she was the one who strayed, such a short marriage surely she should just be told to jog on? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eddoakley Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 22 minutes ago, Mice! said: I never understand that side of things, you didn't have kids, or buy a house together, she was the one who strayed, such a short marriage surely she should just be told to jog on? It seems that the woman is always entitled to what many consider to be an unfair amount regardless off whether there is fault, who's fault, what they brought to the relationship ....they just seem to be able to screw the guy over. Edd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 1 hour ago, eddoakley said: It seems that the woman is always entitled to what many consider to be an unfair amount regardless off whether there is fault, who's fault, what they brought to the relationship ....they just seem to be able to screw the guy over. Edd It's no wonder divorces often end up bitter, for me the person at fault should pay out, and obviously kids and time make things more complex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted September 25, 2021 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 2 hours ago, Mice! said: It would make far more sense if you dated nurses, I mean you must meet loads! 😂😂😂 I’ll try that instead 21 minutes ago, Mice! said: It's no wonder divorces often end up bitter, for me the person at fault should pay out, and obviously kids and time make things more complex. The court have given her the court costs . Short term marriage states they leave with what they brought in . Let’s hope so . I just want rid now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Geordie Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 The team dines diaved when 😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mice! Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 2 hours ago, team tractor said: The court have given her the court costs . Short term marriage states they leave with what they brought in . Let’s hope so . I just want rid now That sounds fair mate 👌 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walker570 Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 (edited) 7 hours ago, team tractor said: I’ve ran out 😂 Dated a pretty one this week . Police again 😂 Well she did run off with her inspector 😂 😂😂😂😂. Dude you know me 😂. I’ve had a hell of a year . 25 dates I guess and erm countless something else . Omg 😂 I hope she’s not on here dude 😂😂😂😂😂. You’d be skinned 😂 Wait until I see her, he will be willing to be skinned. Oooops don't know what happened there, I was referring to another comment. If Nath hasn't learned his lesson by now then there is no hope for him. Edited September 25, 2021 by Walker570 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted September 25, 2021 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 3 hours ago, Lord Geordie said: The team dines diaved when 😊 Now that’s a nice name to see commenting. Great to see 2 hours ago, Walker570 said: Wait until I see her, he will be willing to be skinned. Oooops don't know what happened there, I was referring to another comment. If Nath hasn't learned his lesson by now then there is no hope for him. I’m hopeless nev . 😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billytheghillie Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 what is pof? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TIGHTCHOKE Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 On 24/09/2021 at 16:02, mel b3 said: Mice is spot on nath , just get a fat ugly one with a few teeth missing like I did 👍. Oh I thought it was exactly the opposite! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strimmer_13 Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 18 minutes ago, billytheghillie said: what is pof? Plenty of fish Used to be the tinder of its day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marsh man Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 On 24/09/2021 at 16:23, Walker570 said: We've been thinking about it for 58 years and decided perhaps it's not for us Give it a bit more time Walker before you make any rash decisions , trouble with the youngsters of today , they don't give these sort of things enough time and then live to regret it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mel b3 Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 1 hour ago, TIGHTCHOKE said: Oh I thought it was exactly the opposite! What a cheek , you know I have all my own teeth . I keep them locked in the cupboard and bring them out for special occasions 😊. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TIGHTCHOKE Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 She's a lucky woman and I bet you keep reminding her! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mel b3 Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 She's damned lucky , and she knows it 😅. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dougy Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 I have always said that divorce law should be the same as criminal law, the guilty party is the one that pays the penalty. I'm such a hypocrite 😃 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
London Best Posted September 25, 2021 Report Share Posted September 25, 2021 As a man who has been in a very happy relationship since 1970 I have zero experience of divorce. But I was staggered to read here that a recently divorced member is considering marrying a woman who has been a pain and a constant source of annoyance to him for twenty years. Not for me (or anyone else) to judge but it doesn’t sound like a great plan to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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