Single at Xmas

[team tractor]

Well that was a weird one . Thankfully I have my kiddies and Mel b winding me up constantly on the phone . ( he’s a good lad ) 

This was my first one ever on my own . One blessing I have got is no arguing like some of the couples I spotted Xmas shopping 😂🤣

Oh and it’s my birthday this week 🤦🏻‍♂️. Guess who’s not getting a present 😂

[WalkedUp]

Enjoy Christmas with your children, I love the company of my three boys. 

[TIGHTCHOKE]

Nothing wrong with being single at Christmas, these days there are plenty of ways of keeping in touch.

 

Time for FAMILY - The children are far more important than a missing partner.

[Ttfjlc]

Know how you feel @team tractor, earlier this year my ex decided to move on, find someone new and start again ‘to have some fun’, unfortunately she didn’t want to tell me straight away about the new guy or the hefty debts she’d accumulated, 🙄😆.

Time moves on very quickly, I’m in my own house now, my kids prefer living with me, I cooked my first solo Christmas meal for them, I’ve just finished overloading the dishwasher while listening to ‘always look on the bright side of life’, life is good. 👍 

[mel b3]

12 minutes ago, team tractor said:

Well that was a weird one . Thankfully I have my kiddies and Mel b winding me up constantly on the phone . ( he’s a good lad ) 

This was my first one ever on my own . One blessing I have got is no arguing like some of the couples I spotted Xmas shopping 😂🤣

Oh and it’s my birthday this week 🤦🏻‍♂️. Guess who’s not getting a present 😂

Don't worry mate , you'll soon find a woman that can tolerate you . Bingo at the oap club on Thursday would be a decent place to start looking 👍.

We're at the woodland on Friday if you fancy a ride out dude.  Ask your mom if you can come 👍.

[team tractor]

20 minutes ago, Ttfjlc said:

Know how you feel @team tractor, earlier this year my ex decided to move on, find someone new and start again ‘to have some fun’, unfortunately she didn’t want to tell me straight away about the new guy or the hefty debts she’d accumulated, 🙄😆.

Time moves on very quickly, I’m in my own house now, my kids prefer living with me, I cooked my first solo Christmas meal for them, I’ve just finished overloading the dishwasher while listening to ‘always look on the bright side of life’, life is good. 👍 

My ex wife cheated for 3-4 months before I knew . First I know was armed police locking me up . ( most on here know ) false allegations. 3 months to be proved innocent. Trust me mine had debts and £40k in benefits in my name 🙈. 
This time round it’s been a breeze. No one else . Just walked out 3 weeks ago without an argument and never spoke since ( 3 years together) living at her mums on the sofa. 
 

 

28 minutes ago, TIGHTCHOKE said:

Nothing wrong with being single at Christmas, these days there are plenty of ways of keeping in touch.

 

Time for FAMILY - The children are far more important than a missing partner.

Yeah dating sites 🤣

20 minutes ago, mel b3 said:

Don't worry mate , you'll soon find a woman that can tolerate you . Bingo at the oap club on Thursday would be a decent place to start looking 👍.

We're at the woodland on Friday if you fancy a ride out dude.  Ask your mom if you can come 👍.

Ask my mum 🤣

[team tractor]

40 minutes ago, WalkedUp said:

Enjoy Christmas with your children, I love the company of my three boys. 

 My 3 kiddies have been golden . Bikes , iPads , drones etc . 

[mel b3]

6 minutes ago, team tractor said:

My ex wife cheated for 3-4 months before I knew . First I know was armed police locking me up . ( most on here know ) false allegations. 3 months to be proved innocent. Trust me mine had debts and £40k in benefits in my name 🙈. 
This time round it’s been a breeze. No one else . Just walked out 3 weeks ago without an argument and never spoke since ( 3 years together) living at her mums on the sofa. 
 

 

Yeah dating sites 🤣

Ask my mum 🤣

Tell her I'll make sure you keep well wrapped  up , and don't lose your mittens this time 😁

[team tractor]

1 minute ago, mel b3 said:

Tell her I'll make sure you keep well wrapped  up , and don't lose your mittens this time 😁

🤣🤣🤣. 

[marsh man]

 

1 hour ago, team tractor said:

Well that was a weird one . Thankfully I have my kiddies and Mel b winding me up constantly on the phone . ( he’s a good lad ) 

This was my first one ever on my own . One blessing I have got is no arguing like some of the couples I spotted Xmas shopping 😂🤣

Oh and it’s my birthday this week 🤦🏻‍♂️. Guess who’s not getting a present 😂

This is my second Christmas of being by myself although my circumstances of being single was totally different from yours , I am far better than this time last year but today have been a strange day , I have been out a lot and find it help no end but coming home and preparing the meal just didn't seem right , didn't get upset or nothing but the memories came flooding back when the food and the meal was on the table , mind you , at my age if I had the choice of meeting someone else or staying single it would be staying single without a shadow of doubt , I have always had a lot of freedom even when my wife was still here and that is the way I like it , do what I like when I like . 

I hope your situation will end up to your satisfaction .

[team tractor]

46 minutes ago, marsh man said:

 

This is my second Christmas of being by myself although my circumstances of being single was totally different from yours , I am far better than this time last year but today have been a strange day , I have been out a lot and find it help no end but coming home and preparing the meal just didn't seem right , didn't get upset or nothing but the memories came flooding back when the food and the meal was on the table , mind you , at my age if I had the choice of meeting someone else or staying single it would be staying single without a shadow of doubt , I have always had a lot of freedom even when my wife was still here and that is the way I like it , do what I like when I like . 

I hope your situation will end up to your satisfaction .

 To be honest I’ve just tonight had 6-10 lady’s message be after a date but I’m picky .  I thought for fun I’d join a facebook group about having adventures. It’s gone mental 😂

Edited 15 hours ago by team tractor

[clangerman]

get a fwb trust me you won’t look back it’s all the good stuff and none of the bad spent my day and dinner with the grand children while the harpie is nonexistent hell will freeze before she sees them! 

[marsh man]

7 minutes ago, team tractor said:

 To be honest I’ve just tonight I’ve had 6-10 lady’s message be after a date but I’m picky .  I thought for fun I’d join a facebook group about having adventures. It’s gone mental 😂

If you get one who is edging towards 80 who have got a country estate with plenty of game and need a companion for a few walk up and driven days then I might reconsider my single situation , only might mind you  

[pork chop]

I’ve been single over five years now ,lost my son around same time 

not seen my granddaughter since lost my sister in October so this years been particularly **** 

[Mice!]

1 hour ago, team tractor said:

This time round it’s been a breeze. No one else . Just walked out 3 weeks ago without an argument and never spoke since ( 3 years together) living at her mums on the sofa. 

That's a shock mate, hope the kids are alright 👍 

[team tractor]

4 minutes ago, marsh man said:

If you get one who is edging towards 80 who have got a country estate with plenty of game and need a companion for a few walk up and driven days then I might reconsider my single situation , only might mind you  

 😂  I’m keeping her in that case . Don’t care how old she is 

2 minutes ago, Mice! said:

That's a shock mate, hope the kids are alright 👍 

You’re telling me . Spoilt my dinner I was eating. Seriously tho I was shocked . Not spoke since . I feel hurt for the kids 

11 minutes ago, clangerman said:

get a fwb trust me you won’t look back it’s all the good stuff and none of the bad spent my day and dinner with the grand children while the harpie is nonexistent hell will freeze before she sees them! 

 I’ve had a few of those over the years . Married one too . Didn’t go how I’d planned 😂. 
 

[team tractor]

7 minutes ago, pork chop said:

I’ve been single over five years now ,lost my son around same time 

not seen my granddaughter since lost my sister in October so this years been particularly **** 

That’s sad 😔 . I lost a mate last month . I average one a year so realise life is short 

[clangerman]

5 minutes ago, team tractor said:

 

 I’ve had a few of those over the years . Married one too . Didn’t go how I’d planned 😂. 
 

that’s because you got the love sickness fatal stuff! lol 

[Dougy]

TT you are amazing working with wood, use your gift, get out and show those Tamworth girls what you can do with your wood. 

 

Time wont turn back when its gone its gone, there are a few that i missed along the way and wish i had of enjoyed a little bit of horizontal time with. 

 

See you soon 😃

[team tractor]

1 hour ago, Dougy said:

TT you are amazing working with wood, use your gift, get out and show those Tamworth girls what you can do with your wood. 

 

Time wont turn back when its gone its gone, there are a few that i missed along the way and wish i had of enjoyed a little bit of horizontal time with. 

 

See you soon 😃

I’m now busy this weekend . Pretty lady too . 

[shaun4860]

27 minutes ago, team tractor said:

I’m now busy this weekend . Pretty lady too . 

We need proof, a photo will suffice 🫣

[old man]

8 hours ago, team tractor said:

 To be honest I’ve just tonight had 6-10 lady’s message be after a date but I’m picky .  I thought for fun I’d join a facebook group about having adventures. It’s gone mental 😂

Sorry bud I was unaware.

You could always go for one with a contract and just pay rental. More convenient and much safer financially.

[Dougy]

8 hours ago, shaun4860 said:

We need proof, a photo will suffice 🫣

He's borrowed my trail cam.  😀

[team tractor]

8 hours ago, shaun4860 said:

We need proof, a photo will suffice 🫣

 

8 hours ago, shaun4860 said:

We need proof, a photo will suffice 🫣

Let’s see how it goes and I might just do that 😂. I awoke to messages pouring out my phone 😂

[oldypigeonpopper]

Hello, Christmas and New year is mostly difficult if you live on own or have children albeit living with you or with their mum, For young children it can be just as difficult although my Sons are well past young but did find that in their early years, But then life has to go on and you have to make it the best you can for you and the children, I have been on my own a long time but always made sure my Sons came first priority , Oh and dating in this modern times seems to elude me where years ago it was all Single Dances, Any way enough of my ramblings, Just enjoy life TT what ever comes along for you and you children , Happy birthday and happy Dating