krugerandsmith Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 Geordie. Bad news I know but .... Women are very clever and require security .... Is there another bloke involved? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandalf Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 Touched that base a long time ago Lord Geordie. Never was going to get married again - No not ever, ever, ever... Been hitched to the Memsahib for 35 years now and with her for a total of 42. She's now pushing 80 and not very well on several counts but I wouldn't swap her for anyone in the world. Felt just like you all those years ago but time goes by and time heals. Things change and often for the better. Keep your chin up mate - The night is darkest just before the dawn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evo Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 very sad news, keep yourself occupied, get out more with the lads and find the next conquest/ relationship, don't mean to sound hard about Jackie but believe me you will in time find someone who is better for you and you will wonder what all the fuss was about, most importantly is stay busy, time will pass very quickly and it wont be long before someone else is in the big bed,, her loss not yours atb bud Evo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aga man Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 (edited) Life's too short to be miserable and sad LG, onward and upward fella, chin up. Edited October 26, 2015 by aga man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delburt0 Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 (edited) More important things in life I nearly died in April after 3 heart attacks at the ripe old age of 42 you have got to get on with life, I find myself not giving a **** anymore about much, smiling as much as possible, and thinking how lucky I am to see my wife and kids everyday, but then again It's at the back of my mind everyday that when the next heart attack happens (if it does) it might be goodnight godbless. I know this is slightly different but it still puts life into perspective. Don't be down go shooting usually works for me.... Atb LG Craig... Edited October 26, 2015 by delburt0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timmytree Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 I've just gone through it myself LG, we moved to a beautiful 4 bedroom house in the country last October and she announced 4 months ago that she wanted me out and hasn't loved me since before we moved. Cynical? too right, this is the second time she's done it to me but certainly the last. I'm trying to arrange Xmas with my son and my parents but although she has no plans she doesn't want my parents to see him because in her view her parents "take priority!" The best advice I can give is move out asap, keep a record of everything she says and look out for the inevitable stab in the back. If you own any property or have leases or rental agreements get legal advice. Don't agree to anything without someone witnessing it because in my experience the ex will lie through her eye teeth to make you look bad. Keep yourself busy, like you I go walking, try and avoid booze, make new friends and concentrate on work. You will get through it, I have and now look forward to seeing the ex get her comeuppance after fraudulent claims for benefits and rates allowance,(she claimed even before I left!) Good luck mate, many people will say let go but for me the incentive to get even helps, being dumped is one thing but being taken for a mug and being lied to is something different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mel b3 Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 I've just gone through it myself LG, we moved to a beautiful 4 bedroom house in the country last October and she announced 4 months ago that she wanted me out and hasn't loved me since before we moved. Cynical? too right, this is the second time she's done it to me but certainly the last. I'm trying to arrange Xmas with my son and my parents but although she has no plans she doesn't want my parents to see him because in her view her parents "take priority!" The best advice I can give is move out asap, keep a record of everything she says and look out for the inevitable stab in the back. If you own any property or have leases or rental agreements get legal advice. Don't agree to anything without someone witnessing it because in my experience the ex will lie through her eye teeth to make you look bad. Keep yourself busy, like you I go walking, try and avoid booze, make new friends and concentrate on work. You will get through it, I have and now look forward to seeing the ex get her comeuppance after fraudulent claims for benefits and rates allowance,(she claimed even before I left!) Good luck mate, many people will say let go but for me the incentive to get even helps, being dumped is one thing but being taken for a mug and being lied to is something different. nooo , dont ever try to play the revenge game with a woman , theyre evil monsters that will stop at nothing to make you suffer. most of us have been in your position at some point in our life lg , its as painfull as hell , but , time is the best healer , the pain will slowly get better until one day youre feeling good again , youll move on to bigger and better things and wont look back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 I've just gone through it myself LG, we moved to a beautiful 4 bedroom house in the country last October and she announced 4 months ago that she wanted me out and hasn't loved me since before we moved. Cynical? too right, this is the second time she's done it to me but certainly the last. I'm trying to arrange Xmas with my son and my parents but although she has no plans she doesn't want my parents to see him because in her view her parents "take priority!" The best advice I can give is move out asap, keep a record of everything she says and look out for the inevitable stab in the back. If you own any property or have leases or rental agreements get legal advice. Don't agree to anything without someone witnessing it because in my experience the ex will lie through her eye teeth to make you look bad. Keep yourself busy, like you I go walking, try and avoid booze, make new friends and concentrate on work. You will get through it, I have and now look forward to seeing the ex get her comeuppance after fraudulent claims for benefits and rates allowance,(she claimed even before I left!) Good luck mate, many people will say let go but for me the incentive to get even helps, being dumped is one thing but being taken for a mug and being lied to is something different. That's bad advice trust me. Moving out Why it's your home and you'll end up paying for two places. I know a few people that have moved out and lost everything. I stayed as its my home , she moved out and got nothing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remimax Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 (edited) think if i were in your position i'd be having a bit of Tinder in me life just to keep the old love pump active while the right lass comes along. no shortage out there these days with the ol tinternet . Edited October 26, 2015 by Remimax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobbyathome Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 sorry to hear your news lord g you have 2 options have a real talk to jackie and change how you are to keep her happy possibly having a miserable time and not bieng yourself or step back and keep yourself busy until good times arrive and as other posters have said they will my thoughts are with you whatever happens try to keep it friendly with her bitterness will do you or her no good..rob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LondonLuke Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 Think about it this way, marriage can only end in death or divorce. I think you got the better option. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nigelgreaves Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 Listen mate I am new to PW but not new to what you are going through - 4 years past for me, after 16 years married with two kids. I know everybody will tell you it gets easier. Today you think no way, but it does. Not sure if you have kids, if you have they are the most important things right now, don't loose sight of them. Take your time, collect your thoughts, pick yourself up, dust yourself down and then the world seems a different place. I am now re married to the best lady in the world in fact our first wedding anniversary is coming up on 20 December. Chin up mate, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malkiserow Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 Sorry to hear this LG, hope your PW buddies help a little bit. In my neck of the woods, they all say, "keep your pecker up" but do feel free to ignore Munglers comforting offer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timmytree Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 That's bad advice trust me. Moving out Why it's your home and you'll end up paying for two places. I know a few people that have moved out and lost everything. I stayed as its my home , she moved out and got nothing You have a pm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Geordie Posted October 26, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 I am in no rush to hunt for femal trophies now! I have my own pad and I have responsibility looking after Chris anyway, His birthday last week saw him hit 20 the old timer it's such a shame he isn't into the same stuff I am or we could have a right laugh! I am submersing myself into work at the moment, and get myself back on track as quick as I can! I was invited to a birthday celebration this week so I am away for an evening of laughs. Then I need to see how work goes and see if I can get more hours so I can get myself a short hol booked for next year! I am not normally down for long, I spring back to my feet and will just carry on. I Have a life I intend living!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest rimotu66 Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 LG, it sounds as if you have your head in the right place I have been there and it hurts, it really does but talking to friends (even ones like me who you have never met) and family really does help, worst thing to do is bottle things up. My circumstances where different to yours but when I found the courage to leave my cheating ex wife I really could not see a future for myself with anyone else so I had 3 years on my own, in some ways the best 3 years of my life. Lifes pretty good now for me and am sure it will be for you as well. Keep your chin up (both of them ) and off load on us if you need to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjimmer Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 One thing that WON'T help, is booze. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craftycarper Posted October 27, 2015 Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 One thing that WON'T help, is booze. Oh yes it will, and plenty of it LG..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mossy835 Posted October 27, 2015 Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 the answer is not in the bottom of the glass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandalf Posted October 27, 2015 Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 All that gets you is a hangover that makes you feel worse than you did before. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archie-fox Posted October 27, 2015 Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 Been there mate, divorced last year at 35 years old... 12 months later I've never been so happy..met an amazing woman and realised how rubbish my marriage was!!! Time is a great healer...chin up mate!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrispti Posted October 27, 2015 Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 Had the same nearly 2 years ago, life's been awesome since Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Geordie Posted October 27, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 the answer is not in the bottom of the glass. Your right! I prefer a full one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest rimotu66 Posted October 27, 2015 Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 (edited) Your right, I prefer a full one good man. Mossy does have a point though but am sure you know that. Edited October 27, 2015 by rimotu66 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ferguson_tom Posted October 27, 2015 Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 (edited) Blimey you lot are all finding these amazing women i am tempted to chuck my current one in for a new model....after a couple of months sampling the delights Tinder and plenty of fish has to offer first of course My mate come up with a thought provoking proverb the other day, nothing beats fanny...except of course new fanny. Best of luck LG hope all turns out good in the end, sure it will. And hats off to all the PWs this thread shows the great support and spirit of the shooting community. Edited October 27, 2015 by ferguson_tom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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