Livefast123 Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 What's the protocol for when your wife tells you she wants to seperate on Christmas Eve??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 Look for your receipts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Royboy Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 🙈 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old'un Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 What! "Christmas eve" she tells you......feel for you mate, did you see it coming? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
washerboy Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 My ex did it on my birthday 😟 Never good news 😟😟 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oowee Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 Not much notice. My ex did it on my birthday Never good news never good but every cloud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flynny Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) Boot her out, Then get the whisky out And PAAAAAAARRRRRRRTTTTTTYYYYYY ,like you were 21 again flynny Edited December 24, 2016 by flynny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
39TDS Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 Boot her out, Then get the whisky out And PAAAAAAARRRRRRRTTTTTTYYYYYY flynny Pretty much what I did under similar circumstances. Can't say it was much of a party though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
four-wheel-drive Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 You do not seem to be that bothered about it so I can only assume that you seen it coming for a while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albert 888 Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 Mine went on the 8th took the little one and is having are second baby in July. Keep calm and try to do it all as stressless as possible and keep it friendly. Good luck to you and all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remimax Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) bit of a ****** but no boo hoos by the tone of your post. best way to be over em is too get under a fresh one Edited December 24, 2016 by Remimax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullet1747 Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) Be friendly and grown up remember ya guns and licence , easy to say but get on with your new life and enjoy your only hear once Failing that do her mother and sister Edited December 24, 2016 by bullet1747 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flynny Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 Boot her out, Then get the whisky out And PAAAAAAARRRRRRRTTTTTTYYYYYY ,like you were 21 again flynny I feel for you mate, But it happens in life, it's how you deal with it that matters, You never know what's around the corner in life, you just have to deal with it Have a good Xmas Flynny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Livefast123 Posted December 24, 2016 Author Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) That's pretty much how I'm feeling at the moment, trying to be grown up about it. The length and tone of the post doesn't really show my true feelings, just wanted to save PW loads of emotional drivel 😉 We have 2 young children, I am absolutly gutted. Thimgs hadn't been great recently but what marriage is 100% perfect. Edited December 24, 2016 by Livefast123 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davewh100 Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 very sorry to hear that mate couldn't of picked a worse day if she had tryed like rest of lads of said keep your head together and remember your tickets and just try and enjoy the rest of xmas atb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dougy Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 Ooops not a nice time any time. Find yourself some of your good friends and have some good long chats. Trust me you WILL feel better. Then you will be wondering why you wasted your time moping about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumpy22 Posted December 24, 2016 Report Share Posted December 24, 2016 feel for you mate. should be the happy time with the children. just try and keep it as civil as you can for you and the kids Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonny thomas Posted December 25, 2016 Report Share Posted December 25, 2016 (edited) Feel for you sir if it's not a nice split off your guns I've noticed in the past that guns and kids are often a tool used in these cases I'm not far from you and can make room in my cabinet if you need me to Sorry just read this back and it seems a bit cold it is however a genuine offet Edited December 25, 2016 by jonny thomas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moose man Posted December 25, 2016 Report Share Posted December 25, 2016 Can you get a refund on her present ? ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted December 25, 2016 Report Share Posted December 25, 2016 Look for your receipts? Why am I giggling at this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
team tractor Posted December 25, 2016 Report Share Posted December 25, 2016 (edited) Mine left almost 6 years ago with my 2 kids aged 18 months and 4 . It destroyed my daughter but my boy wasn't old enough to worry. Mine got with my rfd a year later so my guns were safe lol. It's awkward at the beginning sharing the same house still in my case and I was put on antidepressants when she left with the kids. My sgc was not affected by antidepressants I'll add. At least I was monitored. Drinks your enemy I've since met someone else (5 years now) and had another little one. We argue sometimes but that's life and I'd never let anyone hurt her ever. Life's pretty dam good really now and I'm glad the witch left as she dragged me down. I'm looking at marriage next year . Trust me in 6 months you'll be happier than ever Edited December 25, 2016 by team tractor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fortune Posted December 25, 2016 Report Share Posted December 25, 2016 Why is everyone kind of accepting the situation as a total loss? Sort of well that's it over, sort out the bits, be upset and angry about the situation, look for a new partner and scrap the existing to move into another box which may in all probability fail also if statistics are true. If things haven't gone completely off the rails why not try to rebuild the marriage and find out what is the problem and try to get round the issue? It's a big leap into the unknown for a woman with children to take even if their is another bloke lined up to take your place. I know that it I were in this situation I would do everything possible to get the situation back on an even keel and perhaps stall for time to prepare for any eventuality. It could be you that gets booted out and looses everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sprinter Posted December 25, 2016 Report Share Posted December 25, 2016 She found that ironing board and hoover you got her for Christmas, should've hidden them better. In all seriousness now, sorry geez, that's gotta hurt :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mossy835 Posted December 25, 2016 Report Share Posted December 25, 2016 very sorry to hear, but there is no right time of year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fortune Posted December 25, 2016 Report Share Posted December 25, 2016 Ring any bells? http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/marriage/the-8-most-common-reasons-for-divorce/ss-AA3gtcM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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